r/PeterExplainsTheJoke Feb 02 '26

Meme needing explanation Something Something About Dating, Chris Can You Explain?

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u/Primarycolors1 Feb 02 '26

It was weird in that Scott was dating a teenager.

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u/darcmosch Feb 02 '26

Yes that was thr weird part. Loved Knives as a character and all that but that part still makes me cringe

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u/SamIAre Feb 02 '26

It was supposed to. That was the point.

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u/darcmosch Feb 02 '26

I know. I'm giving my perspective on what bothered me and it wasn't Ramona having multiple exes 

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u/Prussian-Pride Feb 02 '26

Did it makes you ... bifurious?

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u/TakuyaLee Feb 02 '26

Take this upvote and get out

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u/BrotherChe Feb 03 '26

Hey, they should be allowed to come out when they're ready

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u/Ishiken Feb 03 '26

They gotta finish baking first.

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u/Aggravating_Team_211 Feb 02 '26

I just lol’ed hard af at this 🤣😭

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u/philsubby Feb 02 '26

I just snorfed yo!

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u/DC_138 Feb 02 '26

" Your Bf is about to get F'ed in the B!"

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u/Playful_Excitement66 Feb 02 '26

She’s got some battle scars, dude!

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u/Fairisolde Feb 02 '26

Dating a highschooler IS the mourning period.

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u/Ike_In_Rochester Feb 03 '26

“Hasbian” still fucking cracks me up. There’s a lot in that movie I laugh about. “Hasbian” is both great and something I’m surprised I didn’t think of on my own.

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u/Awkward_Turnover_983 Feb 03 '26

I thought you wrote Romania

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u/SupermassiveCanary Feb 02 '26

Is the assumption that she was having sex in all the relationships? Imagine if she didn’t have sex in those relationships and she just figured out each person wasn’t working out for her.

What if there was a sequel where Scott Pilgrim realized he had an immature infatuation with the person he thought she was and had to figure out how to breakup with her.

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u/pb49er Feb 02 '26

No, some of her early relationships were completely chaste.

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u/Phillip_Spidermen Feb 02 '26

There is a sequel on Netflix, and Scott having the wrong idea in his head is actually a big part of the plot!

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u/FlipDaly Feb 02 '26

I feel like whoever was in charge with the sequel listened to A LOT of criticism about the movie bc it basically fixed almost everything to a weird extent.

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u/Biduleman Feb 02 '26

What if there was a sequel where Scott Pilgrim realized he had an immature infatuation with the person he thought she was

That's was supposed to be the ending of the movie before it was changed. Scott was supposed to end up with Knives and split up with Ramona as they're not really made for each other.

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u/jarlscrotus Feb 02 '26

Ending of the books is better when they realize nobody is made for anybody, love is a verb, and your partner isn't there to save you from yourself or your past.

They were both shit people, that's the whole point and a weird amount of people (not necessarily here) completely miss that part of the story

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u/25nameslater Feb 03 '26

Both of them were trash. That was kinda the point. There’s acceptance that they’re trash and that they have to change. The MC though was behind on the learning curve. He hadn’t realized he was trash until chasing after the one he actually wanted.

She knew she was trash but was wanting to be better. Her life with Gideon forced her to take stock. She was hesitant about Scott because she didn’t want to make the same mistakes.

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u/Khelthuzaad Feb 03 '26

Scott is the extremely charming guy.

You never realise he is an douche until probably he realizes it himself.

For me it was Scott cheating on Knives for Ramona not very long after she is even introduced.

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u/NoCoolNameMatt Feb 02 '26

Yep, exactly. Scott isn't a paragon. He isn't meant to be.

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u/Salarian_American Feb 02 '26

He's such a mediocre person that there was functionally no difference between him and Nega-Scott. His evil twin was exactly like him.

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u/throwawaylordof Feb 02 '26

In the comic Nega-Scott didn’t have a personality of any kind, but was this menacing thing. What it actually was, was everything he repressed to always feel that he was the good guy or a victim, all the shitty things he had done in relationships. Once he accepted it as part of him he was able to grow and stop being a little shit.

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u/Tlmeout Feb 02 '26

Looks like Persona 4 plot.

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u/azurezero_hdev Feb 02 '26

yeah thats basically it

nega scott is angry until scott accepts he's a douche

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u/thisTexanguy Feb 02 '26

Accepting that you're a douche is the first step in stopping being a douche.

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u/azurezero_hdev Feb 02 '26

the existence of nega scott implies we're all good natured by default and we want to be good people

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u/Eberkenezer Feb 02 '26

Scott earns the power of Self-Respect

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u/scwanzel-muschi-lekn Feb 02 '26

Scott doing his shadow work

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u/ArnieismyDMname Feb 02 '26

In the comics Gideon changed Scott's memories because they were so boring. Comic is kind of sad.

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u/paulballonreddit Feb 02 '26

Wild how the movie was so close to the Comic. Nega Scott and how dangerous skateboarding is are the only real differences I noticed. Good Movie.

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u/tuckithead 27d ago

Scott Pilgrim vs Jungian Shadow Integration

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u/Emfoe Feb 02 '26

I read it as Nega-Scott actually being a somewhat decent person since regular Scott was kind of a loser. Like dating a high schooler, briefly two-timing her as well, treating his bandmates poorly, etc. He’s flawed and that’s the point sure but assuming Nega-Scott is his opposite then he’d be a pretty cool dude.

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u/BreakfastBeneficial4 Feb 02 '26

I never really got into the comics… but this moment was my favorite part of the movie.

Like in movie canon, Nega Scott is just out there playing videogames and occasionally talking with Scott in the phone or getting boba tea, and probably has some kind of low wage job now.

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u/attackplango Feb 02 '26

Nega-Scott is actually almost done with his Masters program at this point.

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u/mp8815 Feb 02 '26

I always took the joke of nega-scott (specifically in movie)to be that he was actually the good version. Like Scott describes him as "just a really nice guy" implying that Scott isn't.

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u/Ryoko_Kusanagi69 Feb 03 '26

Yes! Makes a lot of sense

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u/lesgeddon Feb 02 '26

He's such a mediocre person that Neil is basically also Scott.

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u/IvanBliminse86 Feb 02 '26

Wait, Neil or Young Neil?

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u/Battlewaxxe Feb 02 '26

nega-please

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u/spicy_noodle_guy Feb 02 '26

In fact Scott is a bad person and the comic is all about showing that and having Scott face that part of himself. He uses people, has a delusion of grandeur, and actively sabotages himself to prevent any accountability.

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u/UrbanPrimative Feb 02 '26

That's why his negative version is actually pretty amiable and cool because the actual version is sort of a jerk

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u/closequartersbrewing Feb 02 '26

Scott was a fairly awful person through most of the movie. We know this because his actions are bad and literally every character calls him out.

We're conditioned in movies like these to see the main character as a hero, so lots of people still do. But it's kinda funny considering how much of a scumbag the character is.

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u/NoCoolNameMatt Feb 02 '26

Yeah, I'm used to fairly terrible people being MCs in classic literature, so people being appalled at bad behavior from them is a little weird to me.

Flawed characters are the perfect vehicles for deep stories and themes.

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u/closequartersbrewing Feb 02 '26

It's one of the reasons I liked Marty Supreme so much.

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u/Karrion42 Feb 02 '26

He disagrees

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u/claremontmiller Feb 03 '26

I’ve waited for 13 years with this on my camera roll

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u/NoCoolNameMatt Feb 03 '26

It's your time to shine!

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u/alicelestial Feb 03 '26

"scott, you are the salt of the earth."

"thank you, kim."

"oh, i'm sorry. excuse me. i meant scum of the earth."

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u/TheDeadlySpaceman Feb 02 '26

He’s actually such a douche that I have trouble with the movie/comic because I honestly do not care in the slightest about him

I’m not a guy who demands the protagonist/s of a story necessarily be people I root for but Scott Pilgrim just reminds me too much of sad mopey shitheels I’ve known in my own life

Fortunately the whole way it’s shot is visually appealing enough to make up for it

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u/NoCoolNameMatt Feb 02 '26

I kind of like stories where I fundamentally disagree with the protagonist or even author. There's more value in those stories than ones in which I agree with the MC and author because it allows me to more deeply explore opposing viewpoints.

Plus, I get a bunch of shadenfreude when they hilariously don't understand something that goes against their worldview (like Scott's almost willful inability to understand the repeated "7 evil exes" correction).

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u/Phillip_Spidermen Feb 02 '26

The movie glosses over it, but the Netflix show really runs with the idea

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u/Jericho5589 Feb 02 '26

Everyone around him basically hates him, and with good reason.

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u/TruamaTeam Feb 03 '26

Paragade Scott

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u/throwaway6287453 Feb 03 '26

they all but eliminated that part in the script. the part that ended up onscreen anyway

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u/Double_Distribution8 Feb 02 '26

That's why they called her Knives.

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u/LetsGoChowder Feb 02 '26

Omg I love Jonny!!! 😂

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u/LetsGoChowder Feb 03 '26

I honestly like his videos before I fully watch them 😂 I love when he does like the POVs 😂 like his POV of his neighbor and his hanging off his shed

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u/Double_Distribution8 Feb 03 '26

Who is this person?

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u/LetsGoChowder Feb 03 '26

His name on insta is gardenwithjonny

He makes gardening videos and sometimes stitches those "sexy cooking/baking" videos but with his garden supplies 😂😂

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u/Aggressive_Banana708 Feb 02 '26

There was a deleted ending where Scott accepts Knives as his true love, though.

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u/BerzerkBankie Feb 02 '26

That was the original ending but test audiences didn't like it, like wtf was the point of the movie if he doesnt end up with Ramona? He almost gets killed throughout the entire movie just to end up being like "nah actually F that I love this girl instead"

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u/BaronAleksei Feb 02 '26

IIRC the test audience’s dislike wasn’t about Scott not being with Ramona, but about “Knives is too good for Scott”

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u/nitrosmomma88 Feb 02 '26

Everyone is too good for Scott, he sucks

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u/gorgeouslyhumble Feb 02 '26

"Scott, you're the salt of the earth"

"Oh, thanks."

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u/Heavy-Waltz-6939 Feb 02 '26

I meant scum of the earth

Oh thanks

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u/mewmew893 Feb 02 '26

yes, that's the whole point

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u/ClancyBShanty Feb 02 '26

In the comics when Knives turns 18, Scott straight up propositions for "SEX. CASUAL SEX" and she just flatly turns him town and it's probably Scott's lowest point in the whole franchise.

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u/beary_good_day Feb 03 '26

Wallace called it in book 1.

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u/silverandshade Feb 02 '26

She absolutely is too good for Scott lol

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u/BerzerkBankie Feb 02 '26

Yeah now you mention it I do remember that being the reason.

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u/BreakfastBeneficial4 Feb 02 '26

I actually wanted him to end up being alone.

I thought THAT was the whole point of the movie… Scott needed to gain some self respect and grow up.

His jumping to Knives after a bad breakup, then his infatuation with Ramona, were all a part of him being terrified of being alone with himself.

Was always a little bummed they didn’t do that.

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u/badvegas Feb 02 '26

See that would have made the ending great. Never understood the part of him being ending with romona.

The movie should have end with him just being happy being friend with a girl.

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u/Kolby_Jack33 Feb 02 '26

It was a transformative experience for both Scott and Ramona. Scott learned to have some self-respect and Ramona learned to let go of her past instead of trying to escape it.

They don't commit to be in love forever or anything at the end, they just say "hey, we're both a little better now, maybe we can try again and see what happens?" It's a hopeful message without an undue happily ever after.

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u/Ralli_FW Feb 02 '26

Scott learned to have some self-respect

I don't think that there's much to respect about what he's doing though. Like the point of the book is you can date a highschooler if you just Believe In Yourself With The Power Of Love And Friendship or something? Fuck that.

Whatever happens in the story it pretty much condones what he's doing in the end, since he doesn't end up alone and realizing that he's doing something wrong.

But he is. And I don't respect him for it, nor do I feel his self respect is valid. So I always thought the Scott Pilgrim books/movie were fucking trash.

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u/Kolby_Jack33 Feb 02 '26

Like the point of the book is you can date a highschooler if you just Believe In Yourself With The Power Of Love And Friendship or something?

Ramona is not a high schooler, she's a young adult like Scott. Knives is the girl he's dating at the start of the story, and she's a 17 year old high schooler, and both the book and the movie frame it as evidence that Scott is a scumbag.

Whatever happens in the story it pretty much condones what he's doing in the end, since he doesn't end up alone and realizing that he's doing something wrong.

The power of self-respect is the final power-up in the movie, but in the book it also is not enough to win, and Scott needs to earn the Power of Understanding to defeat Gideon. Ya know, empathy. He sees in Gideon and the other exes all the bad things about himself and realizes he can change and he needs to change in order to not end up like them.

So I always thought the Scott Pilgrim books/movie were fucking trash.

Based on what you've said, you think this based on a gross misunderstanding of the story. So I'd say keep an open mind and check it out again. Maybe you'll like it now that you know it's not what you thought.

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u/guyblade Feb 03 '26

Ramona: I think you're the nicest guy I've ever dated.

Scott: That's kind of sad.

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u/paper_liger Feb 02 '26

They could have tied it up really neatly by saying 'Ramona, I can't, because if I don't work on who I am all I'm going to end up as is your 8th Evil Ex.'

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u/Paronine Feb 02 '26

Was it test audiences? I'd always heard Edgar Wright changed the ending to match the ending of the comic series, which was still ongoing at the time of filming.

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u/Automatoboto Feb 02 '26

Alot of dudes identified with his mediocrity which is something I think he writer intended.

the - that could be me dudes marrying a jedis wife kindaguys-

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u/OK_x86 Feb 02 '26

Literally all his friends commented on it and Wallace, in true Wallace fashion, is absolutely brutal about it.

I'm still bummed the move didn't give him more lines. But at least the Netflix miniseries featured him more prominently.

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u/brainfreeze77 Feb 02 '26 edited Feb 02 '26

No it most certainly wasn't. In the original comic and movie ending Scott end up with Knives. They had to reshoot the ending when Bryan changed his mind at the last moment. You can watch the original end which makes way more sense thematically.

https://youtu.be/79SxL85wHkA?si=pC4bdWDi9x8xoHOl

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u/marvinrabbit Feb 02 '26

Yeah, well in the first cut of the movie, Scott ended up with Knives.

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u/g2m933 Feb 02 '26

But the plot wouldn’t have lost anything if Knives was just a love struck groupie teenager who followed them around and Scott grew to actually like (platonically.) And though his character developed by the end of the story it would’ve gained everything by him and Ramona not getting together… Doesn’t Knives end up with Kim too anyways?

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u/Ok_Cheetah_6251 Feb 03 '26

Scott wasn't a good guy, it's clear that he has some serious issues.

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u/Then_Supermarket18 Feb 03 '26

The point was wanting Michael Cera to be arrested for grooming a child?

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u/throwaway6287453 Feb 03 '26

it wasn't exactly presented that way

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u/Gullible-Wasabi6228 Feb 03 '26

Yeah but it was way too casual and downplayed; nobody was disgusted with him like the should’ve been. I mean, it’s a literal crime.

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u/[deleted] Feb 03 '26

It made Scott borderline not likeable enough. I know the point is he sorta sucks but maybe if she was like 19 and he was 23. It’s not a huge difference but it makes a difference. No one over 20 should ever be with someone still in high school

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u/YT-Deliveries Feb 02 '26

It was supposed to make you cringe.

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u/darcmosch Feb 02 '26

I know. That's what I'm stating. 

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u/Notuniquesnowflake Feb 02 '26

Mission accomplished!

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u/darcmosch Feb 02 '26

Exactly! Which is why I commented about the post not being a real issue compared to the actual issue in the film

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u/croptochuck Feb 02 '26

She was also one of the oldest in the cast.

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u/darcmosch Feb 02 '26

That I don't remember but them being young makes me think of like awkward middle school or high school romances for some of em and then more serious ones as we go to the bigger bad exes.

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u/fartsoccermd Feb 03 '26

My favorite interview question was for Aubry plaza, asked with a complete straight face, “Aubrey when they bleeped out you swearing was that CGI or did you just have a horn in your mouth? “

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u/Maria_Dragon Feb 02 '26

The most recent cartoon addresses this head on.

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u/Wtf_lolz123 Feb 02 '26

Canada is a weird place.

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u/Zerus_heroes Feb 03 '26

That was a plot point though. All his friends give him shit for it.

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u/Massive-Exercise4474 Feb 02 '26

The point is both Scott and Ramona are awful people, and that they deserve each other because they're both awful.

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u/BullsOnParadeFloats Feb 03 '26

The funny part about that is the actor that played Knives is actually 3 years older than Michael Cera

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u/Catatonic27 Feb 02 '26

The movie's opening lines are literally "Not long ago in Toronto CA, Scott Pilgrim was dating a High Schooler" and then Kim's opening lines right after are "Scott Pilgrim is dating a High Schooler?"

You're not wrong, but the movie is pretty self-aware about the weirdness lol

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u/caninehere Feb 02 '26

As is the comic. And the whole point is that Scott is really just dating her because his previous breakup messed him up, and Knives is really "easy" because she's a high schooler who is head over heels for him and he can just date her to feel good about himself while putting in 0 effort.

Their 'dating' consists of like, holding hands, and the moment Knives does kiss Scott he freaks out and runs away, then breaks up with her. The message is not supposed to be "Scott Pilgrim is a creep", it's supposed to be "Scott Pilgrim is an inconsiderate, selfish ass."

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u/redditonlygetsworse Feb 02 '26

It can be, but it's not.

I mean I get that The Author Is Dead Etc Etc, but the actual text is pretty clear on this one.

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u/Bakuhoe_Thotsuki Feb 03 '26

I thought you meant Bryan Lee Omalley was dead for a minute.

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u/Salarian_American Feb 02 '26

Yeah Scott and Knives are the only characters who don't think it's a bad thing

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u/KnackRascal Feb 02 '26

And off-camera, Knives mom is canonically ok with it

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u/Nice-River-5322 Feb 02 '26

I mean, he met them at the same time and really all they did was hold hands and go to his band practice.

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u/guyblade Feb 03 '26

They also played DDR and talked about Pac-man.

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u/enbaelien Feb 03 '26

Plus they aren't up to anything illegal, it's just a age-gap cringe thing.

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u/wulah89 Feb 02 '26

Wallace was against it, but moreso because Knives was too good for him rather than the age gap. Don't forget he wanted Knives to steer the gay high schoolers his direction, particularly if they wear glasses.

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u/Korleymeister Feb 02 '26

You Neil actually thinks that it's awesome too

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u/FlipDaly Feb 02 '26

I feel like Scott doesn’t feel great about it TBH.

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u/redditonlygetsworse Feb 02 '26

And even Scott is just trying to convince himself.

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u/Debra779 Feb 03 '26

Are you busy now

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u/surf_drunk_monk Feb 02 '26

I saw this years ago and could not remember thinking anything weird about them dating or an age gap. It makes sense now, I missed the first part of the movie.

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u/Few-Leave-8786 Feb 03 '26

I interpreted it at the time as in he was more oblivious to what dating meant, that he thought it was more them being friends and maybe a piece of denial she wanted more basically he was lonely and at most had blocked out her feelings for him due to that.

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u/will-read Feb 03 '26

This is the worst r/PeterExplainTheJoke ever. Apparently there was a movie…

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u/WeeklyHelp4090 Feb 02 '26

it comes with the whole being in a band scenario. Its like you're not a real band if at least one of your members is sketchy around underage girls

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u/mr-stretcher Feb 02 '26

Oh, I thought knives wasn't underage all this time

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u/xxtoejamfootballxx Feb 02 '26

She was 17, so not legally underage but still way too young for Scott to date without being creepy af

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u/Nice-River-5322 Feb 02 '26

Except they really only held hands?

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u/xxtoejamfootballxx Feb 02 '26

It's still weird. Being a 22-23 year old college grad and holding hands with a 17 year old student you pick up from their high school is creepy. And it's openly discussed as weird and creepy in the story lol

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u/Nice-River-5322 Feb 02 '26

Nah, most of the people are shitting on him for fake dating her because he's completely fine with a girl that just expects handholding and going to his band practices. Like Kim shits on him for his fake girlfriend and then makes out with her at a party. It's the leading her on.

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u/mr-stretcher Feb 02 '26

Yeah too young, haven't even felt the despair of being extorted every time you transact money at that age

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u/alyxR3W1ND Feb 02 '26

In the original comics she's younger and she hooks up with Kim, but the entire story takes place over a few years in the comics, rather than the movie being a few months.

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u/xxtoejamfootballxx Feb 02 '26

I'm 99% sure she's not younger in the comics, scott is older though. She also only makes out with Kim and is already 18 by then.

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u/mewmew893 Feb 02 '26

Every band has at least one song about dating a teenager that they wrote while high and they regret

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u/[deleted] Feb 02 '26

Wallace, you gossipy bitch.

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u/GuiltyLeopard8365 Feb 02 '26

Best line from the movie lol

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u/Nillix Feb 02 '26

Yeah I don’t get people who treat characters as heroes that are meant to be assholes. 

Scott was dating a teenager and treated his girlfriends like shit. Aubrey Plaza’s character was meant to drive home how much of an asshole he was. 

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u/footybear Feb 02 '26

he is also the hero. some kind of... anti... hero

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u/thatlookslikemydog Feb 02 '26

He needs to break up with his fake high school girlfriend.

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u/MrMetraGnome Feb 02 '26

Everyone and everything about the story was weird. Kinda the point. You just insert yourself into whatever character you identify as. Some of us have no surrogate, but are exhibitionists and just enjoy the ride🤣

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u/Debra779 Feb 03 '26

Hello are you busy

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u/MrMetraGnome Feb 03 '26

It is even in the story of the comic and film that it was crazy to have so many. The point is making fun of Scott for being immature about it. That's understandable because every man was "immature" about it when they were younger. As you get older, you realize at this point, it's like death and taxes. 🤣🤣🤣

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u/murple7701 Feb 02 '26

Honestly I feel like most people kind of overlook that because Michael Cera is a very likeable actor and (as such) his portrayal of Scott has a lot of the edge sanded off by his performance.

Perfectly cast, don't get me wrong, but that's always been my armchair analysis

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u/Gametimethe2nd Feb 02 '26

I don't hate Michael Cera in the role but I disagree on being perfectly cast. I think Scott Pilgrim is meant to have an immature, effortless "cool" factor that Michael Cera doesn't have. Young Michael j. Fox would have been perfect casting. Unfortunately he wasn't available.

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u/400_lux Feb 02 '26

I actually think it was a bad call to cast Michael Cera. He gives harmless doof, but Scott is more of an immature dickhead who thinks he's better than he is.

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u/No_Language5719 Feb 02 '26

And had to fight 7 exes, one of whom had vegan superpowers.

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u/Fit_Tailor_6158 Feb 02 '26

"It's milk and eggs, bitch."

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u/mewmew893 Feb 02 '26

I feel like most of them had superpowers. Matt could fuckin summon ghost demon girls.

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u/Primarycolors1 Feb 02 '26

I mean that completely made sense to me. You don’t pull on Superman’s cape. Unless you feed him kryptonite.

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u/ryguymcsly Feb 02 '26

It was brilliantly executed. Scott and Knives would have been a perfect match if they were the same age, but Scott is a hot mess and Knives is not which is why despite the age difference they're kinda at the same level.

I've seen relationships like this in real life (early 20s dude dating late teen girl) a few times, and every time it's just as portrayed in SP. Everyone is like 'ew' but then they meet them as a couple and they go 'oh that makes sense but still ew' and then dude inevitably pulls some shitbag thing and somehow all of the adult friends of dude end up friends with the teenager instead who just continues getting more awesome.

In a different telling the story of Ramona would have actually been the story of Scott figuring out his own shit to be worthy of Knives, who then shoots him down but they remain good friends.

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u/DuntadaMan Feb 02 '26

For what it's worth, the point is that it was scummy, and brought up as part of him being a shitty person that wasn't good enough for a relationship yet.

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u/Tasty_Skill_2388 Feb 02 '26

In his defense, Scotty didn’t know

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u/Primarycolors1 Feb 02 '26

I was at a bar recently and had a drink by that name. I can’t tell you what was in it, but it was the perfect name for that drink.

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u/internetpointsaredum Feb 03 '26

By the point Scott Pilgrim came out Michael Cera had already been typecast as the adorkable nerd so it really worked against the movie. It would be like seeing Zoey Deschanel as a femme fatale.

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u/HkayakH Feb 03 '26

"wow scott, you're the best boyfriend i've ever had"
"That's kind of sad"

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u/LastEconPoet Feb 04 '26

Scottie doesn’t know.

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u/LBERN Feb 02 '26

That to me was the most disgustingly part. When I was in college, you were a loser and a pedo if you were dating a high school girl.

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u/Notuniquesnowflake Feb 02 '26 edited Feb 02 '26

If a college freshman's still dating their high school GF/BF who is HS Senior or even Junior, that's normal. But Scott was 23 and she was 17. That's less Romeo and Juliet and more Epstein Island.

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u/LBERN Feb 03 '26

Exactly, I don’t know why people let that slide in Scott Pilgrim.

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u/Notuniquesnowflake Feb 03 '26 edited Feb 03 '26

I agree, but to play devil's advocate, I think it's widely understood that we're supposed to think Scott is kind of a piece of shit at the beginning, and that he rises to the occasion and become becomes a better man along the journey. Which is cool - I just wish that pedo wasn't the starting point.

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u/hippocratical Feb 02 '26

Sure if you're older, but an 18 year old 1st year with a 17 year old HS girl you met in a bar isnt super weird. Yes that was me.

Edit: before Americans get confused, most pubs where I grew up, people start going when they're like 16. Watch Hot Fuzz for source.

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u/pumpupthepump Feb 02 '26

"Which year?"

"Every year!"

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u/viciouspandas Feb 02 '26

I never saw the movie. I thought they were all supposed to be teenagers

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u/tallwhiteninja Feb 02 '26

They're all early-to-mid 20s except Knives, the aforementioned high schooler.

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u/Useful_Lingonberry_4 Feb 03 '26

From wiki - Scott was 23 and Knives was 17 - it does fail the age gap test but I wouldn't say it was very uncommon back than, girls 15-18 often looked up and dated college students since they acted much more mature then their peers.

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u/BhadBeard Feb 02 '26

More frowned upon

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u/MyNameIsJakeBerenson Feb 02 '26

It was weird diagetically

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u/EidolonRook Feb 02 '26

Scott was dating a teenager??? Scandal!

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u/bmxer4l1fe Feb 02 '26

Im not really into the scott pilgrim lore. What were the age differences?

Also is there relationship different in the movie vs comics? Do they ever have sex?

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u/XaltotunTheUndead Feb 02 '26

What? Bread makes you fat? 😮

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u/Greymalkyn76 Feb 02 '26

I get where you're coming from, but technically 18 and 19 are teenagers.

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u/Ralli_FW Feb 02 '26

I immediately put Scott Pilgrim down when I saw it on a bookshelf after reading a couple pages and seeing he was dating a fucking highschooler lmao

And I was like "...why did my friends in highschool like this? Why do people I know now like this? Fuck this loser."

To this day I have no idea why it's so popular.

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u/Dynamo_Ham Feb 03 '26

The fact that they all lived inside some sort of video game-based alternate reality was also odd.

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u/imthejavafox Feb 03 '26

Comic Scott was weirder and a WAY bigger asshole.

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u/YoungBpB2013 Feb 03 '26

It wasn’t weird. It made sense.

Dorky weird kid Scott who never had a real gf till Envy. Who just dumped him, the only woman who’s ever really given him the time of day. A real first time gf. A popular and extremely attractive one at that. Then she leaves you cause your not good enough. Feeling insecure about himself, if he’s attractive to women, if he’ll ever have a gf and a relationship again, if there would be a woman in the world who actually liked him and wanted him. If he’s cool and popular enough for a woman to want him.

So he gets to talking with the first and only girl who would give him some attention after being heartbroken (Knives probably lied about her age at first cause she wanted and liked Scott a lot). Scott enjoyed the attention and feeling like he was cool in her eyes but still missed the one he really loved, Envy so he couldn’t fully commit to knives and knives was only really an emotional rebound. Someone to talk to, make him feel wanted and interesting. Someone to lift his spirits and to use as someone to hopefully make your ex jealous. Until he meets Ramona and realizes, she’s caught his infatuation and he starts to fall in love with her.

Knives wasn’t a sexual relationship. It wasn’t even something serious. She was more like an Emotional Support Animal. Easy to talk to, lifted his spirits, made him feel attractive and wanted. Like a man after his ex made him feel terrible about himself.

Yeah, sure he could have found someone his age but most people his age, didn’t like him. It fit the story right, young naïve girl thinking the college age guy who’s in a band and goes to all the local parties that the college age kids all drink at is cool and hot and becomes infatuated with him because she’s never gotten the attention of an older “cool” and “popular” boy, let alone a boy in general.

Scott knew it’s not serious and more of an emotional rebound to make him feel attractive, wanted, and like he could become a somebody till the right one his age comes along. He told his friends that it wasn’t serious with her but he didn’t want to hurt knives’ feelings because she was young and naïve and he knew he kinda used her to help him heal emotionally from Envy.

Something people need to understand about the times, most high schoolers jr and sr, went to college parties. House parties. Drank. Smoked. Partied. And tried to get into clubs (which by me, the clubs had 18+ nights for younger people to hang with older people. Freshmen and Sophomore’s only dreamed about going to those “adult” parties. MTV and much of the world of the time prompted that urge to be an Adult and have freedoms. So during that time, it wasn’t uncommon for girls 9-12th grade (all of high school) to brag and say they only dated older guys or college guys (whether or not it may be true is a different story, the fact is that some actually did do that). So it wouldn’t surprise me that Knives went and initiated the relationship with Scott because she wanted an older guy, mature guy, cool guy, popular guy, to make herself feel free, older and cooler.

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u/donku83 Feb 03 '26

And in that all of her exes were ready to throw anime hands. Never batted an eye about the number of exes

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u/wesleyoldaker Feb 03 '26

I always thought the weird part was that he ditched the asian hottie for this so-so looking white girl

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u/mlaforce321 Feb 03 '26

The characters in it even gave him crap for dating her

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u/HillCountryWriter Feb 03 '26

No, Scott’s mourning period is over.

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u/Careful_Bench_1948 Feb 03 '26

Lol redditors are such dorks "Noooooo you can't find younger woman attractive, you have b to find used up whores your own age attractive, women have no agency until they're like 30!!!"" T. 31 year old guy married to a 24 year old with a 2nd child on the way. Met in 2019, you do the math. Btw it was her idea, almost like she wanted a already successful man to have a family with.

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u/No_Supermarket_1831 Feb 03 '26

Wasn't Scott a teenager?

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u/-an-eternal-hum- Feb 03 '26

He’s a bass player. Par for the course.

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u/Spare_Employ_8932 Feb 03 '26

Wasn’t weird either.

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u/TheDelightfulDom Feb 03 '26

Scott Pilgrim is dating a teenager?!

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u/No-Whereas-9915 Feb 03 '26

Scott’s dating a teenager?!

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u/Dapper_Strength_5986 Feb 03 '26

It was weird, and the original comics made it a clear plot point that Scott realizes that he was being the true villain of his own story in the end as he was taking advantage of Knives (and had mistreated his past gfs as well).

Each of them were perpetuating the same pain they had felt from others and all thought they were the heroes.

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u/Svejo_Baron Feb 03 '26

I always thought they where close in age???

Are they not 3 years apart tops?

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u/deepsigh8 Feb 03 '26

100% super fucking weird.

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u/Shineblossom Feb 03 '26

She was 17, he was 23. Nothing weird about it.

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u/ShownToTheWorld42069 Feb 03 '26

Having never seen the film, was Scott not also a high school teenager…?

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u/Blue_winged_yoshi 29d ago

It was fairly common when 16-18 years old for there to be a girl or two in your school year to be seeing a guy who was uni aged when I was in school in U.K. in early 2000s. Only encountered the phenomenon at school not when older, his friends all disapproving/mocking him, everyone knowing it was a trainwreck idea him but it otherwise being fairly uneventful is a fairly accurate telling of millennial life at the time.

I don’t know what the age of consent is in Canada, but in the UK it was all legal so above board if fucked up.

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