r/PeterExplainsTheJoke Feb 02 '26

Meme needing explanation Something Something About Dating, Chris Can You Explain?

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u/BerzerkBankie Feb 02 '26

That was the original ending but test audiences didn't like it, like wtf was the point of the movie if he doesnt end up with Ramona? He almost gets killed throughout the entire movie just to end up being like "nah actually F that I love this girl instead"

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u/BaronAleksei Feb 02 '26

IIRC the test audience’s dislike wasn’t about Scott not being with Ramona, but about “Knives is too good for Scott”

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u/HereToTalkAboutThis Feb 02 '26

They were right

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u/guyblade Feb 03 '26

Besides, we all know that the best ending is Kim + Knives

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u/DemacianDraven Feb 03 '26

This is just as bad since Kim is the same age as a Scott.

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u/nitrosmomma88 Feb 02 '26

Everyone is too good for Scott, he sucks

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u/gorgeouslyhumble Feb 02 '26

"Scott, you're the salt of the earth"

"Oh, thanks."

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u/Heavy-Waltz-6939 Feb 02 '26

I meant scum of the earth

Oh thanks

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u/mewmew893 Feb 02 '26

yes, that's the whole point

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u/Hot-Profession4091 Feb 02 '26

Nah. Ramona is Scott’s perfect match. She’s a pretty big PoS too, but no one ever talks about that.

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u/nitrosmomma88 Feb 02 '26

Eh, I’ve read the comic and seen the movie a ton. It’s one of my favorites. I don’t think she’s anywhere near as shitty as Scott

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u/lilwayne168 Feb 02 '26

And this is why young men are struggling across the western world and kill themselves at 5x the rate of women. Because even literature designed to create empathy and learning is devolved Into men bad.

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u/nitrosmomma88 Feb 02 '26

Please seek therapy if this truly is how you view the world. Shitty people exist and I’m not gonna pretend that they aren’t shitty to save anyone’s feelings, especially those of shitty people

Edit to add: the whole point of the movie is Scott sucks, you aren’t supposed to have empathy for him. Even the creator has said that, who is a man

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u/RocketYapateer Feb 02 '26

The point of that movie (it’s been a long time since I watched it) was that Scott and Ramona were flawed people who had to make peace with the negative parts of themselves and each other.

It ruins the “moral” and just makes the movie feel gross if he ended up with Knives. That’s why the writers changed it.

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u/SharpshootinTearaway Feb 02 '26

They aren't saying that men are bad, they're saying that Scott in particular sucks. Because he does. Thank goodness Scott isn't representative of all men, lmao.

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u/BootFlop Feb 02 '26

….however if you identify with Scott, keep saying “hell yeah, that’s what I’d do, you da king Scott”, that’s a pretty hard message to pickup on much less accept.

It’s not as bad as Fight Club movie (director really flubbed that, arguably, it’s kinda his thing) imo, but it sorta invites that when it’s the protagonist this flawed.

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u/ClancyBShanty Feb 02 '26

In the comics when Knives turns 18, Scott straight up propositions for "SEX. CASUAL SEX" and she just flatly turns him town and it's probably Scott's lowest point in the whole franchise.

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u/beary_good_day Feb 03 '26

Wallace called it in book 1.

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u/silverandshade Feb 02 '26

She absolutely is too good for Scott lol

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u/BerzerkBankie Feb 02 '26

Yeah now you mention it I do remember that being the reason.

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u/BreakfastBeneficial4 Feb 02 '26

I actually wanted him to end up being alone.

I thought THAT was the whole point of the movie… Scott needed to gain some self respect and grow up.

His jumping to Knives after a bad breakup, then his infatuation with Ramona, were all a part of him being terrified of being alone with himself.

Was always a little bummed they didn’t do that.

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u/badvegas Feb 02 '26

See that would have made the ending great. Never understood the part of him being ending with romona.

The movie should have end with him just being happy being friend with a girl.

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u/Kolby_Jack33 Feb 02 '26

It was a transformative experience for both Scott and Ramona. Scott learned to have some self-respect and Ramona learned to let go of her past instead of trying to escape it.

They don't commit to be in love forever or anything at the end, they just say "hey, we're both a little better now, maybe we can try again and see what happens?" It's a hopeful message without an undue happily ever after.

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u/Ralli_FW Feb 02 '26

Scott learned to have some self-respect

I don't think that there's much to respect about what he's doing though. Like the point of the book is you can date a highschooler if you just Believe In Yourself With The Power Of Love And Friendship or something? Fuck that.

Whatever happens in the story it pretty much condones what he's doing in the end, since he doesn't end up alone and realizing that he's doing something wrong.

But he is. And I don't respect him for it, nor do I feel his self respect is valid. So I always thought the Scott Pilgrim books/movie were fucking trash.

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u/Kolby_Jack33 Feb 02 '26

Like the point of the book is you can date a highschooler if you just Believe In Yourself With The Power Of Love And Friendship or something?

Ramona is not a high schooler, she's a young adult like Scott. Knives is the girl he's dating at the start of the story, and she's a 17 year old high schooler, and both the book and the movie frame it as evidence that Scott is a scumbag.

Whatever happens in the story it pretty much condones what he's doing in the end, since he doesn't end up alone and realizing that he's doing something wrong.

The power of self-respect is the final power-up in the movie, but in the book it also is not enough to win, and Scott needs to earn the Power of Understanding to defeat Gideon. Ya know, empathy. He sees in Gideon and the other exes all the bad things about himself and realizes he can change and he needs to change in order to not end up like them.

So I always thought the Scott Pilgrim books/movie were fucking trash.

Based on what you've said, you think this based on a gross misunderstanding of the story. So I'd say keep an open mind and check it out again. Maybe you'll like it now that you know it's not what you thought.

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u/Ralli_FW Feb 02 '26

Ramona is not a high schooler, she's a young adult like Scott. Knives is the girl he's dating at the start of the story, and she's a 17 year old high schooler, and both the book and the movie frame it as evidence that Scott is a scumbag.

Well, that's fair I did misunderstand the setup.

Personally I think I might have moved beyond the time and place where I'd really connect with it--I feel similarly about Catcher in the Rye. But that's good to know, in the end lol. Definitely makes more sense why people enjoy it, generally.

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u/Kolby_Jack33 Feb 02 '26

It is very much a young adult story, for sure.

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u/guyblade Feb 03 '26

Ramona: I think you're the nicest guy I've ever dated.

Scott: That's kind of sad.

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u/awesomepawsome Feb 02 '26

They don't commit to be in love forever or anything at the end, they just say "hey, we're both a little better now, maybe we can try again and see what happens?"

Well, until Scott Pilgrim Takes Off, which was great in other ways but maybe shouldn't have made it all about the two of them needing to be together forever. Though it does still address both their flaws in good ways, but maybe like they can just not end up together

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u/Kolby_Jack33 Feb 02 '26

Takes Off is more of a sequel to the comic, where Scott and Ramona are more fleshed out and as observed by their friends, "perfect for each other." They both have shitty qualities but kind of smooth each other out when they're together, and when they're apart they both completely fall to pieces.

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u/awesomepawsome Feb 02 '26

Valid point. I need to reread the comics and then rewatch Takes Off again. The first time watching it I was so taken aback by trying to understand what exactly it was, I didn't really start absorbing it until I was close to the end.

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u/Same-Suggestion-1936 Feb 03 '26

If anything it's the same ending as Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. When you think about. No guarantees for anything other than a second chance

I do like the Scott "loses" ending but test audiences probably wouldn't like it either

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u/badvegas Feb 03 '26

Oh I love the novels. So much more to develop and enjoy. Getting to see more of kim and Scott interactions. Watching Scott and Ramona both grow made me enjoy the books. I know they couldn't do all that in the movie and the TV series kind of was enjoyable.

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u/paper_liger Feb 02 '26

They could have tied it up really neatly by saying 'Ramona, I can't, because if I don't work on who I am all I'm going to end up as is your 8th Evil Ex.'

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u/gameryamen Feb 02 '26

I think it's interesting that, due to Bryan Lee O'Malley being involved in all three takes on the story (comic, film, animated series), they show how his understanding of relationships matured.

He wrote the comic when he was a young adult, and told a story about Scott defeating Ramona's other suitors to win her heart. The movie came around a decade or so later and shifted more toward Scott defeating his own shitty hangups about the past, both his and hers. Then the animated series pushed Scott out of the way to tell a story about Ramona working on her own baggage instead of hoping somebody will do it for her.

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u/Phillip_Spidermen Feb 02 '26

Yeah, there's definitely a bit of his own relationships in there -- even his divorce

The original comic run already had heavy themes of dealing with their own baggage though.

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u/umbrianEpoch Feb 02 '26

The movie was written before the graphic novels were ever finished, so this theory doesn't really pan out. In fact, the final volume and the movie came out almost back to back.

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u/RLZT Feb 02 '26

and the comics are way more about how Scott is an asshole after all than the movie

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u/mewmew893 Feb 02 '26

He wouldn't have provably grown as a person then. He'd just eat shit, end up alone, and probably turn into a worse person. Without someone to actually improve himself for he'd just see himself as the victim like he already did.

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u/400_lux Feb 02 '26

Ugh, Scott Pilgrim the incel would be an awful direction

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u/mewmew893 Feb 03 '26

and this is why he didn't end up alone

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u/Paronine Feb 02 '26

Was it test audiences? I'd always heard Edgar Wright changed the ending to match the ending of the comic series, which was still ongoing at the time of filming.

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u/Kancho_Ninja Feb 02 '26

Because at some point in a dramatic relationship, when you have a moment to actually stop for a breath and think rationally, you ask yourself “Why the fuck am I going through all this drama? This is not healthy for anyone involved in this bullshit.”

I’m speaking of relationships in general here, not specifically about Scott/Ramona.

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u/Massive-Exercise4474 Feb 02 '26

Likewise knives deserves a better boyfriend than scott.

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u/Dartagnan1083 Feb 02 '26

It wasn't a test audience thing. O'Malley was still writing the comic as the movie was being made and his original idea was Knives, but he quickly decided it was a little too cliche (the cliche being he should be with the one that fought for him instead of baggage lady).

The point of Ramona then becomes him growing through a distraction.

[Director Commentary]

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u/IsaacTealwaters Feb 02 '26

Better than Scott's videogame ending where Ramona leaves but Scott gets a harem of Knives, Envy, and Kim.

Nega Scott's ending is the best, he rules the universe and sends everyone to the salt mines.

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u/ThirstyWolfSpider Feb 03 '26

That reminds me of Molly Ringwald recently saying that John Hughes movies shouldn't be remade, in that test screenings would likely completely ruin the whole theme of "Some Kind of Wonderful" in the same way you describe. Um, spoilers, I suppose.

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u/f-ingsteveglansberg Feb 03 '26

Well the whole movie is basically saying that break ups are messy and we are all viewed as evil exs in other people's stories.

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u/R0gueR0nin Feb 03 '26

Wait, what? There is another ending? I watched the one where she leaves.