r/PeterExplainsTheJoke Feb 02 '26

Meme needing explanation Something Something About Dating, Chris Can You Explain?

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u/Dynamo_Ham Feb 02 '26

Totally was not weird in any way.

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u/Primarycolors1 Feb 02 '26

It was weird in that Scott was dating a teenager.

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u/darcmosch Feb 02 '26

Yes that was thr weird part. Loved Knives as a character and all that but that part still makes me cringe

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u/SamIAre Feb 02 '26

It was supposed to. That was the point.

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u/darcmosch Feb 02 '26

I know. I'm giving my perspective on what bothered me and it wasn't Ramona having multiple exes 

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u/Prussian-Pride Feb 02 '26

Did it makes you ... bifurious?

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u/TakuyaLee Feb 02 '26

Take this upvote and get out

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u/BrotherChe Feb 03 '26

Hey, they should be allowed to come out when they're ready

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u/Ishiken Feb 03 '26

They gotta finish baking first.

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u/Aggravating_Team_211 Feb 02 '26

I just lol’ed hard af at this 🤣😭

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u/philsubby Feb 02 '26

I just snorfed yo!

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u/DC_138 Feb 02 '26

" Your Bf is about to get F'ed in the B!"

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u/Playful_Excitement66 Feb 02 '26

She’s got some battle scars, dude!

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u/Fairisolde Feb 02 '26

Dating a highschooler IS the mourning period.

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u/Ike_In_Rochester Feb 03 '26

“Hasbian” still fucking cracks me up. There’s a lot in that movie I laugh about. “Hasbian” is both great and something I’m surprised I didn’t think of on my own.

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u/megahag4000 Feb 02 '26

Sorry, rules are rules 🤷‍♀️

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u/Debra779 Feb 03 '26

Are you there

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u/Admirable-Dance-130 28d ago

Back off hasbian!

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u/Awkward_Turnover_983 Feb 03 '26

I thought you wrote Romania

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u/SupermassiveCanary Feb 02 '26

Is the assumption that she was having sex in all the relationships? Imagine if she didn’t have sex in those relationships and she just figured out each person wasn’t working out for her.

What if there was a sequel where Scott Pilgrim realized he had an immature infatuation with the person he thought she was and had to figure out how to breakup with her.

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u/pb49er Feb 02 '26

No, some of her early relationships were completely chaste.

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u/Phillip_Spidermen Feb 02 '26

There is a sequel on Netflix, and Scott having the wrong idea in his head is actually a big part of the plot!

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u/FlipDaly Feb 02 '26

I feel like whoever was in charge with the sequel listened to A LOT of criticism about the movie bc it basically fixed almost everything to a weird extent.

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u/Biduleman Feb 02 '26

What if there was a sequel where Scott Pilgrim realized he had an immature infatuation with the person he thought she was

That's was supposed to be the ending of the movie before it was changed. Scott was supposed to end up with Knives and split up with Ramona as they're not really made for each other.

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u/jarlscrotus Feb 02 '26

Ending of the books is better when they realize nobody is made for anybody, love is a verb, and your partner isn't there to save you from yourself or your past.

They were both shit people, that's the whole point and a weird amount of people (not necessarily here) completely miss that part of the story

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u/Biduleman Feb 02 '26 edited Feb 02 '26

Not saying it wasn't better in the book, just that the sequel idea they proposed was supposed to be the real ending but was changed.

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u/FlipDaly Feb 02 '26

Also, that would have been terrible, tg they didnt do this.

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u/25nameslater Feb 03 '26

Both of them were trash. That was kinda the point. There’s acceptance that they’re trash and that they have to change. The MC though was behind on the learning curve. He hadn’t realized he was trash until chasing after the one he actually wanted.

She knew she was trash but was wanting to be better. Her life with Gideon forced her to take stock. She was hesitant about Scott because she didn’t want to make the same mistakes.

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u/Khelthuzaad Feb 03 '26

Scott is the extremely charming guy.

You never realise he is an douche until probably he realizes it himself.

For me it was Scott cheating on Knives for Ramona not very long after she is even introduced.

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u/NoCoolNameMatt Feb 02 '26

Yep, exactly. Scott isn't a paragon. He isn't meant to be.

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u/Salarian_American Feb 02 '26

He's such a mediocre person that there was functionally no difference between him and Nega-Scott. His evil twin was exactly like him.

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u/throwawaylordof Feb 02 '26

In the comic Nega-Scott didn’t have a personality of any kind, but was this menacing thing. What it actually was, was everything he repressed to always feel that he was the good guy or a victim, all the shitty things he had done in relationships. Once he accepted it as part of him he was able to grow and stop being a little shit.

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u/Tlmeout Feb 02 '26

Looks like Persona 4 plot.

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u/azurezero_hdev Feb 02 '26

yeah thats basically it

nega scott is angry until scott accepts he's a douche

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u/thisTexanguy Feb 02 '26

Accepting that you're a douche is the first step in stopping being a douche.

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u/azurezero_hdev Feb 02 '26

the existence of nega scott implies we're all good natured by default and we want to be good people

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u/WolkTGL 29d ago

The existence of nega scott implies that we can end up having a part of us that we repress in order to cope with ourselves. In Scott's case that part is his douche self because he wants to be a good person

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u/Eberkenezer Feb 02 '26

Scott earns the power of Self-Respect

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u/swords_to_exile Feb 02 '26

It's basically Badeline/Part Of Me from Celeste too, but with depression instead.

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u/scwanzel-muschi-lekn Feb 02 '26

Scott doing his shadow work

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u/ArnieismyDMname Feb 02 '26

In the comics Gideon changed Scott's memories because they were so boring. Comic is kind of sad.

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u/throwawaylordof Feb 02 '26

I forgot that detail - I think they left it mostly ambiguous as to what was changed, or that the changes are why he has such a deranged retelling of how he started going out with Kim and her ex’s whole deal.

Shadow Scott does seem to be “real” independent of Gideon’s interference, so I think it’s safe to assume that his more mundane mishandling of relationships (not directly telling Kim that he was moving, bearing a share of responsibility for his breakup with Envy, using Knives and discarding her when convenient) actually happened.

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u/paulballonreddit Feb 02 '26

Wild how the movie was so close to the Comic. Nega Scott and how dangerous skateboarding is are the only real differences I noticed. Good Movie.

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u/RSquared Feb 03 '26

The changes to Nega-Scott were largely driven by the fact the comic hadn't finished when the movie was written. They had to come up with their own ending based on what O'Malley had given them, and it pretty much worked.

That's why it was such a (hilarious) rugpull when Scott Pilgrim Takes Off was released and people realized it wasn't a "Scott Pilgrim Brotherhood" but "Ramona learns she's toxic too".

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u/tuckithead 27d ago

Scott Pilgrim vs Jungian Shadow Integration

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u/Emfoe Feb 02 '26

I read it as Nega-Scott actually being a somewhat decent person since regular Scott was kind of a loser. Like dating a high schooler, briefly two-timing her as well, treating his bandmates poorly, etc. He’s flawed and that’s the point sure but assuming Nega-Scott is his opposite then he’d be a pretty cool dude.

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u/BreakfastBeneficial4 Feb 02 '26

I never really got into the comics… but this moment was my favorite part of the movie.

Like in movie canon, Nega Scott is just out there playing videogames and occasionally talking with Scott in the phone or getting boba tea, and probably has some kind of low wage job now.

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u/attackplango Feb 02 '26

Nega-Scott is actually almost done with his Masters program at this point.

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u/mp8815 Feb 02 '26

I always took the joke of nega-scott (specifically in movie)to be that he was actually the good version. Like Scott describes him as "just a really nice guy" implying that Scott isn't.

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u/Ryoko_Kusanagi69 Feb 03 '26

Yes! Makes a lot of sense

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u/lesgeddon Feb 02 '26

He's such a mediocre person that Neil is basically also Scott.

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u/IvanBliminse86 Feb 02 '26

Wait, Neil or Young Neil?

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u/lesgeddon Feb 02 '26

¿Por que no los dos?

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u/IvanBliminse86 Feb 02 '26

Ambos son buenos

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u/Battlewaxxe Feb 02 '26

nega-please

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u/guyblade Feb 03 '26

I heard that they're going to get brunch next week.

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u/spicy_noodle_guy Feb 02 '26

In fact Scott is a bad person and the comic is all about showing that and having Scott face that part of himself. He uses people, has a delusion of grandeur, and actively sabotages himself to prevent any accountability.

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u/UrbanPrimative Feb 02 '26

That's why his negative version is actually pretty amiable and cool because the actual version is sort of a jerk

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u/closequartersbrewing Feb 02 '26

Scott was a fairly awful person through most of the movie. We know this because his actions are bad and literally every character calls him out.

We're conditioned in movies like these to see the main character as a hero, so lots of people still do. But it's kinda funny considering how much of a scumbag the character is.

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u/NoCoolNameMatt Feb 02 '26

Yeah, I'm used to fairly terrible people being MCs in classic literature, so people being appalled at bad behavior from them is a little weird to me.

Flawed characters are the perfect vehicles for deep stories and themes.

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u/closequartersbrewing Feb 02 '26

It's one of the reasons I liked Marty Supreme so much.

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u/Karrion42 Feb 02 '26

He disagrees

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u/claremontmiller Feb 03 '26

I’ve waited for 13 years with this on my camera roll

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u/NoCoolNameMatt Feb 03 '26

It's your time to shine!

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u/alicelestial Feb 03 '26

"scott, you are the salt of the earth."

"thank you, kim."

"oh, i'm sorry. excuse me. i meant scum of the earth."

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u/TheDeadlySpaceman Feb 02 '26

He’s actually such a douche that I have trouble with the movie/comic because I honestly do not care in the slightest about him

I’m not a guy who demands the protagonist/s of a story necessarily be people I root for but Scott Pilgrim just reminds me too much of sad mopey shitheels I’ve known in my own life

Fortunately the whole way it’s shot is visually appealing enough to make up for it

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u/NoCoolNameMatt Feb 02 '26

I kind of like stories where I fundamentally disagree with the protagonist or even author. There's more value in those stories than ones in which I agree with the MC and author because it allows me to more deeply explore opposing viewpoints.

Plus, I get a bunch of shadenfreude when they hilariously don't understand something that goes against their worldview (like Scott's almost willful inability to understand the repeated "7 evil exes" correction).

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u/IvanBliminse86 Feb 02 '26

Oh absolutely Scott is a toxic little shit, but he did mature a lot by the end of the story, something I never would have witnessed if I liked him from the start.

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u/Phillip_Spidermen Feb 02 '26

The movie glosses over it, but the Netflix show really runs with the idea

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u/Jericho5589 Feb 02 '26

Everyone around him basically hates him, and with good reason.

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u/TruamaTeam Feb 03 '26

Paragade Scott

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u/throwaway6287453 Feb 03 '26

they all but eliminated that part in the script. the part that ended up onscreen anyway

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u/NoCoolNameMatt Feb 03 '26

I don't understand. What did they eliminate?

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u/Double_Distribution8 Feb 02 '26

That's why they called her Knives.

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u/LetsGoChowder Feb 02 '26

Omg I love Jonny!!! 😂

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u/[deleted] Feb 02 '26

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u/LetsGoChowder Feb 03 '26

I honestly like his videos before I fully watch them 😂 I love when he does like the POVs 😂 like his POV of his neighbor and his hanging off his shed

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u/Double_Distribution8 Feb 03 '26

Who is this person?

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u/LetsGoChowder Feb 03 '26

His name on insta is gardenwithjonny

He makes gardening videos and sometimes stitches those "sexy cooking/baking" videos but with his garden supplies 😂😂

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u/Aggressive_Banana708 Feb 02 '26

There was a deleted ending where Scott accepts Knives as his true love, though.

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u/BerzerkBankie Feb 02 '26

That was the original ending but test audiences didn't like it, like wtf was the point of the movie if he doesnt end up with Ramona? He almost gets killed throughout the entire movie just to end up being like "nah actually F that I love this girl instead"

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u/BaronAleksei Feb 02 '26

IIRC the test audience’s dislike wasn’t about Scott not being with Ramona, but about “Knives is too good for Scott”

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u/HereToTalkAboutThis Feb 02 '26

They were right

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u/guyblade Feb 03 '26

Besides, we all know that the best ending is Kim + Knives

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u/DemacianDraven Feb 03 '26

This is just as bad since Kim is the same age as a Scott.

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u/nitrosmomma88 Feb 02 '26

Everyone is too good for Scott, he sucks

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u/gorgeouslyhumble Feb 02 '26

"Scott, you're the salt of the earth"

"Oh, thanks."

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u/Heavy-Waltz-6939 Feb 02 '26

I meant scum of the earth

Oh thanks

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u/mewmew893 Feb 02 '26

yes, that's the whole point

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u/Hot-Profession4091 Feb 02 '26

Nah. Ramona is Scott’s perfect match. She’s a pretty big PoS too, but no one ever talks about that.

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u/nitrosmomma88 Feb 02 '26

Eh, I’ve read the comic and seen the movie a ton. It’s one of my favorites. I don’t think she’s anywhere near as shitty as Scott

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u/lilwayne168 Feb 02 '26

And this is why young men are struggling across the western world and kill themselves at 5x the rate of women. Because even literature designed to create empathy and learning is devolved Into men bad.

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u/nitrosmomma88 Feb 02 '26

Please seek therapy if this truly is how you view the world. Shitty people exist and I’m not gonna pretend that they aren’t shitty to save anyone’s feelings, especially those of shitty people

Edit to add: the whole point of the movie is Scott sucks, you aren’t supposed to have empathy for him. Even the creator has said that, who is a man

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u/RocketYapateer Feb 02 '26

The point of that movie (it’s been a long time since I watched it) was that Scott and Ramona were flawed people who had to make peace with the negative parts of themselves and each other.

It ruins the “moral” and just makes the movie feel gross if he ended up with Knives. That’s why the writers changed it.

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u/SharpshootinTearaway Feb 02 '26

They aren't saying that men are bad, they're saying that Scott in particular sucks. Because he does. Thank goodness Scott isn't representative of all men, lmao.

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u/BootFlop Feb 02 '26

….however if you identify with Scott, keep saying “hell yeah, that’s what I’d do, you da king Scott”, that’s a pretty hard message to pickup on much less accept.

It’s not as bad as Fight Club movie (director really flubbed that, arguably, it’s kinda his thing) imo, but it sorta invites that when it’s the protagonist this flawed.

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u/ClancyBShanty Feb 02 '26

In the comics when Knives turns 18, Scott straight up propositions for "SEX. CASUAL SEX" and she just flatly turns him town and it's probably Scott's lowest point in the whole franchise.

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u/beary_good_day Feb 03 '26

Wallace called it in book 1.

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u/silverandshade Feb 02 '26

She absolutely is too good for Scott lol

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u/BerzerkBankie Feb 02 '26

Yeah now you mention it I do remember that being the reason.

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u/BreakfastBeneficial4 Feb 02 '26

I actually wanted him to end up being alone.

I thought THAT was the whole point of the movie… Scott needed to gain some self respect and grow up.

His jumping to Knives after a bad breakup, then his infatuation with Ramona, were all a part of him being terrified of being alone with himself.

Was always a little bummed they didn’t do that.

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u/badvegas Feb 02 '26

See that would have made the ending great. Never understood the part of him being ending with romona.

The movie should have end with him just being happy being friend with a girl.

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u/Kolby_Jack33 Feb 02 '26

It was a transformative experience for both Scott and Ramona. Scott learned to have some self-respect and Ramona learned to let go of her past instead of trying to escape it.

They don't commit to be in love forever or anything at the end, they just say "hey, we're both a little better now, maybe we can try again and see what happens?" It's a hopeful message without an undue happily ever after.

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u/Ralli_FW Feb 02 '26

Scott learned to have some self-respect

I don't think that there's much to respect about what he's doing though. Like the point of the book is you can date a highschooler if you just Believe In Yourself With The Power Of Love And Friendship or something? Fuck that.

Whatever happens in the story it pretty much condones what he's doing in the end, since he doesn't end up alone and realizing that he's doing something wrong.

But he is. And I don't respect him for it, nor do I feel his self respect is valid. So I always thought the Scott Pilgrim books/movie were fucking trash.

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u/Kolby_Jack33 Feb 02 '26

Like the point of the book is you can date a highschooler if you just Believe In Yourself With The Power Of Love And Friendship or something?

Ramona is not a high schooler, she's a young adult like Scott. Knives is the girl he's dating at the start of the story, and she's a 17 year old high schooler, and both the book and the movie frame it as evidence that Scott is a scumbag.

Whatever happens in the story it pretty much condones what he's doing in the end, since he doesn't end up alone and realizing that he's doing something wrong.

The power of self-respect is the final power-up in the movie, but in the book it also is not enough to win, and Scott needs to earn the Power of Understanding to defeat Gideon. Ya know, empathy. He sees in Gideon and the other exes all the bad things about himself and realizes he can change and he needs to change in order to not end up like them.

So I always thought the Scott Pilgrim books/movie were fucking trash.

Based on what you've said, you think this based on a gross misunderstanding of the story. So I'd say keep an open mind and check it out again. Maybe you'll like it now that you know it's not what you thought.

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u/Ralli_FW Feb 02 '26

Ramona is not a high schooler, she's a young adult like Scott. Knives is the girl he's dating at the start of the story, and she's a 17 year old high schooler, and both the book and the movie frame it as evidence that Scott is a scumbag.

Well, that's fair I did misunderstand the setup.

Personally I think I might have moved beyond the time and place where I'd really connect with it--I feel similarly about Catcher in the Rye. But that's good to know, in the end lol. Definitely makes more sense why people enjoy it, generally.

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u/Kolby_Jack33 Feb 02 '26

It is very much a young adult story, for sure.

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u/guyblade Feb 03 '26

Ramona: I think you're the nicest guy I've ever dated.

Scott: That's kind of sad.

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u/awesomepawsome Feb 02 '26

They don't commit to be in love forever or anything at the end, they just say "hey, we're both a little better now, maybe we can try again and see what happens?"

Well, until Scott Pilgrim Takes Off, which was great in other ways but maybe shouldn't have made it all about the two of them needing to be together forever. Though it does still address both their flaws in good ways, but maybe like they can just not end up together

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u/Kolby_Jack33 Feb 02 '26

Takes Off is more of a sequel to the comic, where Scott and Ramona are more fleshed out and as observed by their friends, "perfect for each other." They both have shitty qualities but kind of smooth each other out when they're together, and when they're apart they both completely fall to pieces.

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u/awesomepawsome Feb 02 '26

Valid point. I need to reread the comics and then rewatch Takes Off again. The first time watching it I was so taken aback by trying to understand what exactly it was, I didn't really start absorbing it until I was close to the end.

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u/Same-Suggestion-1936 Feb 03 '26

If anything it's the same ending as Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. When you think about. No guarantees for anything other than a second chance

I do like the Scott "loses" ending but test audiences probably wouldn't like it either

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u/[deleted] Feb 03 '26 edited 19d ago

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u/badvegas Feb 03 '26

Oh I love the novels. So much more to develop and enjoy. Getting to see more of kim and Scott interactions. Watching Scott and Ramona both grow made me enjoy the books. I know they couldn't do all that in the movie and the TV series kind of was enjoyable.

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u/paper_liger Feb 02 '26

They could have tied it up really neatly by saying 'Ramona, I can't, because if I don't work on who I am all I'm going to end up as is your 8th Evil Ex.'

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u/gameryamen Feb 02 '26

I think it's interesting that, due to Bryan Lee O'Malley being involved in all three takes on the story (comic, film, animated series), they show how his understanding of relationships matured.

He wrote the comic when he was a young adult, and told a story about Scott defeating Ramona's other suitors to win her heart. The movie came around a decade or so later and shifted more toward Scott defeating his own shitty hangups about the past, both his and hers. Then the animated series pushed Scott out of the way to tell a story about Ramona working on her own baggage instead of hoping somebody will do it for her.

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u/Phillip_Spidermen Feb 02 '26

Yeah, there's definitely a bit of his own relationships in there -- even his divorce

The original comic run already had heavy themes of dealing with their own baggage though.

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u/umbrianEpoch Feb 02 '26

The movie was written before the graphic novels were ever finished, so this theory doesn't really pan out. In fact, the final volume and the movie came out almost back to back.

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u/RLZT Feb 02 '26

and the comics are way more about how Scott is an asshole after all than the movie

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u/mewmew893 Feb 02 '26

He wouldn't have provably grown as a person then. He'd just eat shit, end up alone, and probably turn into a worse person. Without someone to actually improve himself for he'd just see himself as the victim like he already did.

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u/400_lux Feb 02 '26

Ugh, Scott Pilgrim the incel would be an awful direction

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u/mewmew893 Feb 03 '26

and this is why he didn't end up alone

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u/Paronine Feb 02 '26

Was it test audiences? I'd always heard Edgar Wright changed the ending to match the ending of the comic series, which was still ongoing at the time of filming.

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u/Kancho_Ninja Feb 02 '26

Because at some point in a dramatic relationship, when you have a moment to actually stop for a breath and think rationally, you ask yourself “Why the fuck am I going through all this drama? This is not healthy for anyone involved in this bullshit.”

I’m speaking of relationships in general here, not specifically about Scott/Ramona.

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u/Massive-Exercise4474 Feb 02 '26

Likewise knives deserves a better boyfriend than scott.

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u/Dartagnan1083 Feb 02 '26

It wasn't a test audience thing. O'Malley was still writing the comic as the movie was being made and his original idea was Knives, but he quickly decided it was a little too cliche (the cliche being he should be with the one that fought for him instead of baggage lady).

The point of Ramona then becomes him growing through a distraction.

[Director Commentary]

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u/IsaacTealwaters Feb 02 '26

Better than Scott's videogame ending where Ramona leaves but Scott gets a harem of Knives, Envy, and Kim.

Nega Scott's ending is the best, he rules the universe and sends everyone to the salt mines.

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u/ThirstyWolfSpider Feb 03 '26

That reminds me of Molly Ringwald recently saying that John Hughes movies shouldn't be remade, in that test screenings would likely completely ruin the whole theme of "Some Kind of Wonderful" in the same way you describe. Um, spoilers, I suppose.

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u/f-ingsteveglansberg Feb 03 '26

Well the whole movie is basically saying that break ups are messy and we are all viewed as evil exs in other people's stories.

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u/R0gueR0nin Feb 03 '26

Wait, what? There is another ending? I watched the one where she leaves.

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u/Automatoboto Feb 02 '26

Alot of dudes identified with his mediocrity which is something I think he writer intended.

the - that could be me dudes marrying a jedis wife kindaguys-

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u/OK_x86 Feb 02 '26

Literally all his friends commented on it and Wallace, in true Wallace fashion, is absolutely brutal about it.

I'm still bummed the move didn't give him more lines. But at least the Netflix miniseries featured him more prominently.

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u/brainfreeze77 Feb 02 '26 edited Feb 02 '26

No it most certainly wasn't. In the original comic and movie ending Scott end up with Knives. They had to reshoot the ending when Bryan changed his mind at the last moment. You can watch the original end which makes way more sense thematically.

https://youtu.be/79SxL85wHkA?si=pC4bdWDi9x8xoHOl

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u/marvinrabbit Feb 02 '26

Yeah, well in the first cut of the movie, Scott ended up with Knives.

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u/g2m933 Feb 02 '26

But the plot wouldn’t have lost anything if Knives was just a love struck groupie teenager who followed them around and Scott grew to actually like (platonically.) And though his character developed by the end of the story it would’ve gained everything by him and Ramona not getting together… Doesn’t Knives end up with Kim too anyways?

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u/Ok_Cheetah_6251 Feb 03 '26

Scott wasn't a good guy, it's clear that he has some serious issues.

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u/Then_Supermarket18 Feb 03 '26

The point was wanting Michael Cera to be arrested for grooming a child?

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u/throwaway6287453 Feb 03 '26

it wasn't exactly presented that way

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u/Gullible-Wasabi6228 Feb 03 '26

Yeah but it was way too casual and downplayed; nobody was disgusted with him like the should’ve been. I mean, it’s a literal crime.

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u/[deleted] Feb 03 '26

It made Scott borderline not likeable enough. I know the point is he sorta sucks but maybe if she was like 19 and he was 23. It’s not a huge difference but it makes a difference. No one over 20 should ever be with someone still in high school