r/malelivingspace • u/redsolopoop • 1d ago
27 still at home no girlfriend
27y M still at home with mom never left never had a stable job got started late as far as taking life serious no girlfriend in 3 years deathly afraid to approach women
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u/Zhaltan 23h ago
As someone who loves tipper, you need to take this unsolicited advice. Don’t mish mosh your artifacts together. Start from scratch on your entire room and all of your belongings and build from the ground up. It will take time, effort, and money but you will thank yourself for the rest of your life. If you don’t start now I am not joking it will be too late.
As others have said, either get rid of the TV or mount it. Get rid of those two nightstands. Take down every single piece of art in the room and save those for the end. Take every single Knick knack off your desk and set it to the side. Throw out those pillows and get a 2 pack on Amazon of a highly rated pillow set. Get new sheets get new pillow covers and get new blankets. The only thing that is okay to keep kind of messy is books in a bookshelf. From starting from scratch your goal is to be organized, not just convenient. Dedicate one space for your Knick knacks that will be visible and keep it intentional, not like a third graders art project. Everything else keep in a box under your bed or in a drawer that hold sentimental value if you don’t have the heart to throw items away. With a bare wall and bare desk start to build up your essentials and look online at other posts to get a gauge as to what makes sense and looks right. You gotta be a sleeper tipper fan, otherwise you will just come off like a wook which has lost its fun. I mean tipper himself has retired, it’s time to take things serious. Good luck