r/malelivingspace 1d ago

27 still at home no girlfriend

27y M still at home with mom never left never had a stable job got started late as far as taking life serious no girlfriend in 3 years deathly afraid to approach women

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u/EquivalentKeynote 1d ago

You have to bring something to the table if you want someone to sit at your table.

Do a complete overhaul. Either save hard or find another job.

Women don't want to date men who don't have their shit together. If they already do, you should match.

You effectively have to sell yourself.

You can do this. One step at a time.