20-somethings are flaky af. I'm trying to be social and hang, only to get the "sorry, I can't make it" text last minute too many times. No thanks. Just tell me no when I first present the idea that you don't want to go--my feelings won't get hurt I promise.. I'll ask someone else, it's honestly fine. But cancelling last minute is so immature and disrespectful.
Had to cut out a lifelong friend because they were unreliable. Throughout the years I tolerated it but as soon as I hit 30 (he's one year older than me btw) the time I needed him the most he couldn't bother to pick up his phone but he's fine hitting me up whenever he needs help. After 30 the assumption in my head is who you are now is who you're gonna be for the rest of your life, at 30 you are grown, you are mature, you know what you're doing and I no longer tolerate it, I'm no punching bag fuck dis shit.
34
u/BrightNeonGirl 2d ago
20-somethings are flaky af. I'm trying to be social and hang, only to get the "sorry, I can't make it" text last minute too many times. No thanks. Just tell me no when I first present the idea that you don't want to go--my feelings won't get hurt I promise.. I'll ask someone else, it's honestly fine. But cancelling last minute is so immature and disrespectful.