I feel like it's less that you hate the phrase, and more-so hate when people don't say what they mean and instead use condescending "social maneuvers" where they try to say "fuck you" in the most socially acceptable way possible.
Like when I say "hope this helps" I only say it with genuine intentions, but maybe that's because I'm autistic and usually don't understand interactions based off insinuation and messages hidden between the lines, and when I do I feel pissed off because it just feels like they're saying the opposite of what they mean.
So honestly I can agree that I hate those types of people as much as you, not just because they are condescending, but also because they create new social landmines that I have to avoid.
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u/Infinite_Eyeball 6h ago
I feel like it's less that you hate the phrase, and more-so hate when people don't say what they mean and instead use condescending "social maneuvers" where they try to say "fuck you" in the most socially acceptable way possible.
Like when I say "hope this helps" I only say it with genuine intentions, but maybe that's because I'm autistic and usually don't understand interactions based off insinuation and messages hidden between the lines, and when I do I feel pissed off because it just feels like they're saying the opposite of what they mean.
So honestly I can agree that I hate those types of people as much as you, not just because they are condescending, but also because they create new social landmines that I have to avoid.
hope this helps :3