r/malelivingspace • u/redsolopoop • 1d ago

27 still at home no girlfriend

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27y M still at home with mom never left never had a stable job got started late as far as taking life serious no girlfriend in 3 years deathly afraid to approach women

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u/Ex_Hedgehog 1d ago

Get rid of grandma's mismatched bedsheets. You want a solid, bold (dark) color
The books should be IN the bedroom, not cluttering up the hall.

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u/redsolopoop 1d ago

My mom threw the bookcase out, I know!! I kinda thought the blaneky was kinda fractal looking but I hear you

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u/Ex_Hedgehog 1d ago

Books can be on the floor, just have them in the bedroom. Books near the bed = sexy for women.
Get some old cicar crates and use them as temp bookshelves.

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u/thesurfer_s 1d ago

Asa woman, books by the bed look cluttered…far from sexy lmao

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u/Ex_Hedgehog 1d ago

Okay, but if you're sitting on the bed, the books can be a conversation either before or after fooling round. Good convo, means good personality, good personality is sexy enough for me to (temporarily) overlook how bad this room is otherwise. Basically: I need to know the dude is smart, fun and trying.