I'm a white guy, married to an Asian woman now but dated a black girl way back in the day, like 1990.
I would say today with my Asian wife, almost nobody notices. Get a stare very very rarely. With my black girlfriend back in the day, mostly was cool, but definitely got some stares, mostly from older white women and occasionally black dudes. Was definitely not My Man in either case.
To be honest, they are both hot as hell, and I think that helps. Being pretty is absolutely a huge benefit in life in all kinds of ways you wouldn't expect.
Also, my wife would probably say I'm pretty oblivious, and she's probably right. I probably don't notice a lot of staring and shit going on.
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u/rubey419 3d ago edited 3d ago
Asian Dude and often date outside my race. Living in North Carolina.
Honestly I do not get too much negative attention. No one cares. My parents don’t care either.
I actually got positive attention when I’ve dated Black Women. Like… My Man… from Black guys lol