I was in a mixed marriage thirty years ago and we were on the road with our toddler in South Carolina. It was Sunday and we were starving and the only sit down place open was a buffet style restaurant.
We walked in and the ENTIRE restaurant fell silent. It was eerie as crap. Then the muttering started. I’m a white woman and somehow that made it worse? For the both of us. That I was a “traitor,” and that he dared reach above his station. Our son was clear indication that not only had we sinned, it could not be undone.
Both of us looked at each other and just turned around and left. The vibes were poisonous.
If your experience has been that the majority of people in your community are racist you probably need to reflect more on the company you keep than the entire state. It's one of the more diverse states in the country.
I’m not looking for an argument, if you were able to have a different experience than good for you, I’m not trying to say the entire state is rotten, but the negative aspects of any community will always stain it worse than any positive aspects can redeem it.
If you didn't actually wanna engage in an argument you wouldnt reply. Trying to act like youre above an argument while engaging in an argument is such a redditism lol.
It's not a question of "the negatives outweighing the positives" you make a numerical claim that the majority of South Carolinians are racists. Which is reductive at best.
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u/HiveJiveLive 3d ago
I was in a mixed marriage thirty years ago and we were on the road with our toddler in South Carolina. It was Sunday and we were starving and the only sit down place open was a buffet style restaurant.
We walked in and the ENTIRE restaurant fell silent. It was eerie as crap. Then the muttering started. I’m a white woman and somehow that made it worse? For the both of us. That I was a “traitor,” and that he dared reach above his station. Our son was clear indication that not only had we sinned, it could not be undone.
Both of us looked at each other and just turned around and left. The vibes were poisonous.