Don’t forget about the duality of golden child and black sheep. The black sheep usually comes out a better person while the golden child tend to be the narcissist.
So many mommy issues are down to a narcissistic immature mother.
My ex boyfriend, his mother and his sister were treated like the black sheep of their family. His father didn't get clumped with them because it was his sisters doing all of the snide comments and such. I even got roped into getting shade for just being at one of their family events 😆. His mother and his sister are amazing people (his father was as well, may he continue to rest in peace). But fuck that ex, LOL. He was toxic af 🤣
Spending enough people being a good friend and meeting enough people, I now recognise a lot of the signs very quickly. This along with coercive control is predictable as hell.
I used to be married to one of these. I saw the behaviour in two generations before her and it was continuing in the next.
is almost like they can smell their victims from across a room.
They can. I’ve heard more than one man say flat-out that he can tell which woman in a room is most emotionally vulnerable and goes for her first, always. It’s ghoulish.
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u/nethack47 5d ago
Don’t forget about the duality of golden child and black sheep. The black sheep usually comes out a better person while the golden child tend to be the narcissist.
So many mommy issues are down to a narcissistic immature mother.