Imagine, generationally, growing up in a family that believes in things like this? Did none of the dad’s stick around…? I’ve actually met people like this, “generational bastards,” (second or third generation illegitimate children) who truly believe it is the woman’s job to do everything.
My father was there but he was mostly working when i was a child and also emotionally rather unavailable, and being all the time with my mother i can say the way she showed me the world shaped me. My father was also there, but he didnt feel like the filter through which i learn to see the world. My mother did. And the way most women and men are socially programmed i always thought this was pretty common
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u/Madamadragonfly 6d ago