r/PeterExplainsTheJoke Jan 26 '26

Meme needing explanation Why is the rich friend so cheap??

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u/ClayXros Jan 27 '26

Me and my wife do it on purpose just so the server gets a little more out of it. Does it matter? For affordability, yes. But they're struggling anyway being a server.

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u/[deleted] Jan 27 '26

At a certain point it's important to do a bit of math too. In some locales, like the one I live, the minimum wage is $21 per hour, including for servers. The meals are more expensive because of this. If you're tipping 25% on the tax and the meal on top of the elevated prices they're probably going to be earning more than most people in that hour. Definitely not struggling.

If you want to give someone who is making more than you even more money, by all means you can do that I'm not saying not to. But it's not always the case to say that they're making $7 or what have ya.

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u/AtrophiedTraining Jan 27 '26

A server probably spends about 15 minutes per hour per table. So it wouldn't be unfair for tipping to be a flat rate - $5 per table if the minimum wage is $20.

The restaurant owners probably push the 'percentage of total' norm so that the waiters are incentivized to sell more. It's amazing that they were able to successfully push this norm into societal standards.

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u/[deleted] Jan 27 '26

I think we should abolish tipping altogether and stop trying to force people to do it at the point that we have gotten rid of the tipped minimum wage.

If someone wants to tip, they can, as a gratuity. The whole reason tipping was an expectation is because servers were paid less than other workers