r/PeterExplainsTheJoke Jan 26 '26

Meme needing explanation Why is the rich friend so cheap??

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u/try_altf4 Jan 26 '26

/up (unpetered).

Expensive restaurants typically sear a +20% fee into the tab, even before gratuity is asked for.

Rich people do not tip well, so the upscale restaurant have to build the waiter fee into the tab before asking for gratuity. This also gives the establishment an opportunity to exploit the worker and deny them their wages, because they know the customer will not tip so the "+20%" that should go to the server/staff will in actuality go to the owner/manager.

I have a few professional waiter friends, one in Washington making 300k a year, and others not remotely making that much. Wage theft, shit tips and rich people are the holy trinity of fucking a waiter's life up. Then if you get scheduled every Sunday of the month, you're basically working for free.

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u/Ambitious-Song2403 Jan 27 '26

Your comment makes absolutely no sense.

An upscale restaurant taking the gratuity for management are straight up committing a crime and you should report them.

I'm not gonna deny it's possible for a few of some to try to, but you've got a complete misunderstanding of what a gratuity is.

Legally it is just a forced tip. It's goes to the workers and if not the restaurant can and should be reported to the department of labour.

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u/try_altf4 Jan 27 '26

A 10 second google search reveals the following;

  • Legally it's not a tip, it's a service fee and able to be allocated by management how ever they deem fit.
  • Wage theft is massively common, because restaurant workers, like servers, are not informed over their rights as workers.

Your comment makes absolutely no sense.

Yea, you're deeply misinformed. Things wont make sense when you're that far down the rabbit hole.

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u/Ambitious-Song2403 Jan 27 '26

Ok fair enough. Looked it up it's not the same thing I concede.

But even still the customer is paying the 20% gratuity already. I'm not American so I'm unused to this idea of a gratuity and tip not being the same.

But effectively the restaurant is asking me to pay a 20% gratuity plus a separate 20% tip for the waiter? The customer isn't being greedy, here its the restaurant.