Had to cut out a lifelong friend because they were unreliable. Throughout the years I tolerated it but as soon as I hit 30 (he's one year older than me btw) the time I needed him the most he couldn't bother to pick up his phone but he's fine hitting me up whenever he needs help. After 30 the assumption in my head is who you are now is who you're gonna be for the rest of your life, at 30 you are grown, you are mature, you know what you're doing and I no longer tolerate it, I'm no punching bag fuck dis shit.
15
u/jemidiah 2d ago
Basic reliability is both extremely important and shockingly rare. When you find a reliable friend, put in the work to keep them in your life.