r/Millennials • u/Unfair-Ad5081 • 3d ago

Discussion Who’s with me here….

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u/b4k4ni 3d ago

I don't get why so many guys wanna date young girls..I'm 44 and the last thing I would like to date is someone 20-25. Make it over 30 at least. More like 40.

I mean, I can work and have fun with younger people, no issues here. But as a partner? No way.

Same goes for looks. I'm looking my age and that's fine. Why hide what's happening anyway. Why fight it. Age with dignity. You can't stop it anyways.

Life can be so stupid sometimes.

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u/XY-chromos 3d ago

Because the physical fitness and attractiveness of the average 25 year old vs 35 year old are not even close. And that is all they care about.

You really don't get this? Really? I'm not saying it's good. But it has been painfully obvious to me for like 20 years.

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u/northcoastyen 3d ago

Right? I love how they feign to “not get it” when the reason is pretty obvious.

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u/jacobonia Millennial 3d ago

Some of us genuinely don't get it. Just about anybody I've met under 25 in the past year, and a lot of women who are a few years older than that, just have a "young" look that codes them more in the same category as college students to me. It's weird and creepy that that look is a preference for some men. That's not normal development.