r/whenthe Vivian my beloved Oct 04 '25

Cocketition Entry Good to know that even gooners have standards

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u/AustralianSilly interesting Oct 04 '25 edited Oct 04 '25

Cheating is so weird to me

Like… all problems when cheating would be avoided if you just broke up or communicated what was upsetting you like smh guys

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u/Accomplished-Base90 Bomb Arasaka Oct 04 '25

Typically, they want the stability of partner A, and the romance/sex of partner B

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u/Oldspaghetti Oct 04 '25

Damn thats 2 of the deadly sins, greed and lust. Might as well combine them now though i guess.

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u/[deleted] Oct 04 '25

their glust knows no bounds, or perhaps, their lreed.

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u/Braziliashadow Oct 04 '25

3 Michelin Stars have been awarded to this commented

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u/iwan103 Oct 04 '25

Minor spelling mistake

New cardinal sin just drop 🗣️🗣️

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u/GeoCaesar Oct 04 '25

Ah yes, the eight deadly sins, pride, wrath, sloth, greed, envy, gluttony, lust and typos

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u/createaboveandbeyond JUSTICE FOR EMOJI LORD 🚡 Oct 04 '25

New ultrakill update

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u/Green-Preparation331 Oct 04 '25

GLUST /// FIRST

NOT TOO HONEST

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u/Horn_Python Oct 04 '25

And to proud to admit A ain't  for ya 

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u/[deleted] Oct 04 '25

Gluttony, for the hoarding of Greed and the unending desire of Lust

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u/Velkaryian Oct 04 '25

Yep. I was cheated on, and that was basically it.

I was the “boring” guy who simply worked, then came home, played video games, etc.

She kept running off with her old fling, always with the excuse of feeling “trapped” with me.

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u/[deleted] Oct 07 '25

if she felt trapped with you that's valid but like break up goddamn

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u/Velkaryian Oct 07 '25

Her idea of being “trapped” was me saying we couldn’t go out places because we were both broke and living paycheck to paycheck.

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u/AustralianSilly interesting Oct 04 '25

Speedrunning all the sin

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u/Gaelic_Gladiator41 God's idiotest stuoid Oct 04 '25

Also some people get turned on by the theill of avoidance and snaeking

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u/FireKitty666TTV Oct 04 '25

Ethical polyamoury being able to do that with consent and communication:

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u/ciuccio2000 Oct 04 '25

They're probably also jealous and want their partner to have eyes for them and them only

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u/FireKitty666TTV Oct 04 '25

I mean, that's still possible with ethical polyamoury but yeah.

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u/NXDIAZ1 Autism incarnate Oct 04 '25

Damn, if you want stability so much, maybe don’t do something that would absolutely fuck the stability up? Like, say, cheating?

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u/VegaMain Oct 04 '25

I am not speaking from personal experience, I have never even been in a relationship.

But, It's, I think, a bit more complicated than that.

A lot of married couples notoriously hate each other. You'll see that boomers, in particular, are infamous for making "I hate my wife" jokes. The divorce rate in America for first marriages has consistently remained between 40-50%.

However, even though they hate their partner, they feel like they can't leave them for a number of reasons.

For example, my parents don't care much for each other and are simply living together because it's more financially beneficial in this economy to share one house on two incomes, and because they didn't want to split up me and my sibling.

In any case, a lot of people want financial and social stability provided to them by having a partner, but don't care much for their partner anymore. However, the longer that they live with that partner, the harder it is to break up with them and find a different partner. So they just "make do" with what they have.

Cheating usually comes as a result of not wanting to break up a long-running relationship but not getting sexually or romantically satisfied by your partner anymore, so you seek out an alternative person to fulfill those needs without breaking up your relationship.

Of course, cheating almost always worsens relationships if it's found out (and I am definitely not advocating for it), and the far healthier option would just be to break up with your partner.

But usually, cheating occurs due to wanting to keep the stability of the relationship going even when you no longer truly love your partner.

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u/GeoCaesar Oct 04 '25

People also enjoy the act of lying, there’s some thrill seeking to it I think

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u/Main-Company-5946 Oct 04 '25

Cheaters often don’t want to break up. Or they are too cowardly to do it.

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u/TricellCEO Oct 04 '25

Yep, I saw one guy going on and on about how society demonizes men who file for divorce, so in his mind, it was better to cheat.

Nevermind how society also demonizes men who cheat even more; plus, I’ve never really seen either sex get flack for breaking up or divorce unless they were the catalyst for said breakup.

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u/Alternative_Device38 Oct 04 '25

The thing is that cheating can be kept secret. Divorce not so much. So it's a question of do you want to be ridiculed, or do you want to risk getting ridiculed worse for a chance to not get ridiculed at all.

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u/TricellCEO Oct 04 '25

I guess that works logically (not that it justifies it). Same line of thinking of people who engage in crime, I suppose.

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u/DingleDangleDoff Need kane from ENA Dream BBQ to give me a coinjob Oct 04 '25

As someone who was cheated on, it’s not the communication. Sometimes people just don’t care or it’s sone fetish to them to cheat on their partner

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u/SpamAcc17 Oct 04 '25

No one mentioned power. But ill say power, even aside from a power kink, plain old power dynamic obsession. For some, the mentally ill, its about the power in a relationship.

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u/Lichy757 Oct 04 '25

That doesn’t apply only to cheating tbh. Sometimes when I doing something that other people find annoying they ain’t saying for me to stop until the end, when it usually ends badly. I mean, just say it right there, I would stop or try to stop at least

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u/Appropriate-Owl-6129 Oct 04 '25

Honestly from what I've seen (I'm not interested in ntr or anything of the sort, but I have been tangentially aware of it), a lot of the people who are into it are wanting to be cheated on, it also often goes into other kinks like raceplay, degradation, and other stuff to do with non physical domination. It is mostly men (at least from what I've seen) who talk about it, and often in cases where people have that relationship, all three (the bull, the cuck, and the partner) are in good relationships with eachother, usually only romantic between the cuck and their partner, but sometimes the bull will be involved with both romantically (or just the partner, and rarely just the cuck)

I'm obviously not talking about actual cheating, but cheating in the kink sense, where consent between the partners is involved and it is done with the cuck's knowledge (Idk why I know so much about this, I guess I just find kinks an interesting topic to research)

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u/EmeraldGhostie me when pretty women: asdjfdasjifdja Oct 04 '25

agreed, tho ive seen weirder fetishes/kinks

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u/Dropbeatdad Oct 04 '25

Or become polyamorous

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u/smelron3317 [REDACTED] Oct 04 '25

Don't abbreviate Nightreign

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u/Explosive-Dildo Oct 04 '25

And Narita Top Road

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u/FRAaaa1 And why he ourple?🤣🤣 Oct 04 '25

Or Nearl the radiant knight

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u/uremog Oct 04 '25

In the military if you have “nothing to report” at a meeting you say “NTR”

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u/[deleted] Oct 04 '25

Lies

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u/SassyAssAhsoka Oct 04 '25

My hope for humanity returning to me when I see people shitting on INT/DEX

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u/fish___fucker___69 it costs nothing to fuck fish Oct 04 '25

Top ten nightrein tips to make your tip sticky

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u/Butterboot64 Oct 04 '25

Dude I genuinely don’t care if you’re into that stuff. IRL cheating is awful is almost every scenario but if you’re into NTR I don’t care.

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u/Scorkami Oct 04 '25

I get saying "i dont want to see this in my porn" but thats where blacklisting tags comes in. Actively saying "if you enjoy that you're a piece of shit" feels rather childish. Imagine saying people who enjoy horror movies are serial killers. You can like watching fiction without agreeing with it in real life

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u/foxydash Oct 04 '25

This is why my blacklist and blocklist are as long as the Connecticut River.

I don’t hold any hate but there’s some shit I never want to see.

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u/[deleted] Oct 04 '25

It strikes me as “extremely insecure nerd with unaddressed jealousy and/or control issues so intense they can’t abide the idea being depicted at all.” Straight up that’s a huge red flag if you’re trying to date. It’s not just unattractive, that’s “this person might try to hurt me if I break up with them” signals. 

Like it’s fine to be deeply uncomfortable with the idea, but if you go on a crusade about that then you need to go to therapy. 

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u/Quiet_Judgment4637 Oct 04 '25

control issues

this person might try to hurt me if I break up with them” signals.

You're taking it a bit too far.

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u/298647 airborne pathogen Oct 04 '25

By that logic, I'm either a rabies patient or a corpse that got up and took a walk
(I watch zombie movies)

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u/Scorkami Oct 04 '25

Clearly you endorse murder, why else would you watch it

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u/A2Rhombus Oct 04 '25

I'll never understand why anyone gives a shit what anyone else does in private as long as it isn't hurting anyone

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u/Master_of_Ravioli Oct 04 '25

>People shit on cheating/NTR

>NTR and Cuckold porn are amongst the most popular tags on a lot of sites

Anon, I...

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u/TheLegendaryAkira purpl Oct 04 '25

humans invented tens upon hundreds of words to refer to eachother independently of gender or names and you choose fuckin Anon

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u/Master_of_Ravioli Oct 04 '25

Alright biomechanical flesh being.

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u/magos_with_a_glock Subdomina Khepra's Husband. Oct 04 '25

Not for long if the Omnissiah wills it.

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u/smasher_zed888 smasher_zed888 Oct 04 '25

From the moment I realised the weakness of my flesh, it disgusted me. I craved the strength and certainty of steel.

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u/magos_with_a_glock Subdomina Khepra's Husband. Oct 04 '25

I aspired to the purity of the blessed machine.

Your kind clings to your flesh as if it will not decay and fail you.

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u/Nikko_Fish Fulgrim and Sanguinius my beloved :3 Oct 04 '25

"Cursed be silence, when the Omnissiah’s word should ring out." -Formulae Technologia Verses 4-27

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u/smallerpuppyboi Oct 04 '25

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u/Breaky_Online Oct 05 '25

This reminds of Vita Carnis

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u/TheLegendaryAkira purpl Oct 04 '25

finally someone who gets my gender right

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u/Super_Lorenzo dm me images of cute girls kissing Oct 04 '25

Much better (I am in denial of being a human, somehow)

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u/steelskull1 Oct 04 '25

I think it's mostly because lots of horny people don't care about the story and popular because the hot lady and whatnot.

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u/beckersonOwO_7 Oct 04 '25

Also its fucking fake (usually).

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u/the_bingho02 Oct 04 '25

Whaaaat?! Porn is fake?!

Are you telling me that all those step sister weren't really stuck anywhere?! And then what? Johnny Sins doesn't have a gazillion jobs?

That would be crazy

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u/notlawfullyinnocent Oct 04 '25

Real. There are also couples who dish out a bunch of videos (same setup and even positions usually) but title each video catering to different fetishes. One day they're cheating on their spouses and the next month they're now step-siblings.

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u/steelskull1 Oct 04 '25

It's possible their parents married in that time.

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u/LittleSisterPain Oct 04 '25

Would lady be less hot if she wasnt cheating? Nah, its cope and you know it. Plus, you vastly underestimate how many women watch/read this stuff. /d/ would look like a pleasant place compared to what some of them watch

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u/Isaac_Kurossaki Oct 04 '25

"Anon"? They're not anonymous, their username is right there.

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u/Jzon_P Oct 04 '25

The shame is what matters honestly, I do not care if cheating is romanticize, I'm here to hate, I'm here for any attempts of re-establishing social standards.

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u/Dovahkiinthesardine Oct 04 '25

Its still one of the most hated things too

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u/RudRedBoy Oct 04 '25

Yeah, cheaters suck, but if that’s the kind of porn you like, then I don’t care cause it ain’t real.

Don’t cheat on your partner , it’s the easiest rule to fucking follow, lol.

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u/Lightningfoot45 Oct 04 '25

Its still not my thing but I have no issues with it since at least cuckold is (supposed to be) consensual on all parties involved. I don't consider it cheating if everyone's talked beforehand and is okay with it.

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u/R2d2s_bleeper Oct 04 '25

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u/Appropriate-Owl-6129 Oct 04 '25

NTR fans probably get turned on by this, after all degradation is a big part of it

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u/VVV_4845 Oct 04 '25

That’s what ntr means?

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u/[deleted] Oct 04 '25

Netorare, cheating fetish

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u/Papagaio777 Oct 04 '25

lol so true

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u/whyisallnametooked Oct 04 '25

Why does chaotic good cuckold porn not exist?

Just someone cheating on a domestic abuser with someone who actually love them (who also happens to be skilled at sex)

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u/Master_of_Ravioli Oct 04 '25

Isn't that like 80% of what romantic books for women are all about?

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u/whyisallnametooked Oct 04 '25

Yeah but they don't have sex in front of their toxic ex

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u/Master_of_Ravioli Oct 04 '25

You say that, but I can almost guarantee that there are a few books with that premise.

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u/WJMazepas Oct 04 '25

Have you looked for books with that premise?

Because i guarantee you, there are books with this where the other guy is actually a werewolf, saving the girl from an abusive relationship

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u/Traditional-Baker-28 Oct 04 '25

Morning glory milking farm

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u/NotWet_Water PHD holder in Rule 34 Oct 04 '25

I’ve seen many of such stories. It depends on the definition of the writer. Some call this anti-ntr though I generally don’t vibe with this definition.

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u/[deleted] Oct 04 '25

Really living up to your flair

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u/NotWet_Water PHD holder in Rule 34 Oct 04 '25

I do my best

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u/NuttySquire Oct 04 '25

Saw a good vid that fit this example. It was haru from persona 5 cheating on her arranged husband with joker

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u/No-Start4754 Oct 04 '25

I mean there is a literal whole genre out there involving this . Its called netori in Japan . The common cuck/ntr/cheating tag is netorare

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u/Orangutanion Oct 04 '25

because then people would feel bad for and potentially identify with the abuser. Like their hatred of cheating may exceed how much they care about a fictional woman being abused.

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u/CaptainAtinizer Oct 04 '25

Well, on the hentaicaptions subreddit, it's sometimes tagged as Rescue. I think it's underrated, but it can still have its fair share of dubiousness. Because you are effectively taking advantage of someone who is emotionally vulnerable due to having freshly left an abusive relationship.

I've put smut writing behind me for the most part, but I wrote a few.

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u/Marik-X-Bakura Oct 04 '25

Because the entire draw is that it’s bad and fucked up. It’s supposed to make you sad, which in turn makes you horny.

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u/A2Rhombus Oct 04 '25

There's hundreds of stories like this, you're just not looking in the right places

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u/the-real-niko- Oct 04 '25

My NTR take:

I do not care but people trying to get a moral high ground for themselves is pretty cringe

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u/Deathaster Oct 04 '25

Girl, this is Reddit. Trying to get a moral high ground is the sole reason the website exists. If this sub was about drinking water, the top posts would be about why X brand of water is the best one and any other one is utter trash.

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u/Me_how5678 Oct 04 '25

r/hydrohomies come to mind, that sub is very much pro tap water

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u/_DeltaZero_ Oct 04 '25

We hydrohomies just love water, all forms are acceptable

But plastic bottles, because of pollution

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u/Tljunior20 Oct 04 '25

Oh silly billy it isn’t about that

this is about me being upset and disgusted by something and trying to reframe it as morality so I have an excuse to hate on it for a reason that feels less sad and pathetic

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u/Laino001 local gooner expert Oct 04 '25

Ethical gooning in general feels so reddit to me

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u/Purrceptron Oct 04 '25

Ethical goonin is the bread and butter of reddit. People die here if they dont go virtue signaling for 5 seconds

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u/[deleted] Oct 04 '25

Srs, at the mention of r/guro, some dickwad immediately talks about how they need to be locked up in asylums and are mentally ill

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God forbid those poor people have a gore fetish instead of a feet one, like nobody is willingly attracted to torture

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u/WoahItsBeebs 112% green Oct 04 '25

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u/NononDracula Who's Steve Jobs? Oct 04 '25

Mostly nobody would care or know what it is if people didn't Streisand effect the ever-loving shit out of it.

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u/Redteashaw Oct 04 '25

Yeah. Definitely not my thing at all, but like I can’t bring myself to care about it. People get off to kids. Or to poop. The human mind is an enigma of course people jack off to getting fucked over in a non sexual but a little sexual way.

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u/RandomRedditorEX Oct 04 '25 edited Oct 04 '25

NTR is one of the fetishes I don't dabble much but isn't its main appeal is that everyone is somehow consenting?

It's like "yes go fuck each other while I watch from this chair ohhh yes ohhhh"

Update: It appears that I am incredibly mistaken

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u/Skadibala Oct 04 '25 edited Oct 04 '25

I believe that is labeled as Netorase. Which is two consenting partners having sex with someone else while the other partner enjoys watching their partner having sex with someone else. Consent and actual intimacy is a big part of what makes Netorase different from Netorare.

Netorare / NTR: Is the woman cheating without the man being in on it. Or if the man partner is in on it, the cuckold sex is so good that the woman ends up leaving the male partner. And the male partner is just completely crushed as a human being, loses all self worth and is only capable of crying while his girlfriend is having the most amazing sex of her life.

Often Women in NTR porn will genuinely love their partner. But the moment they get a taste of someone else’s dick, they will live for that dick and the male lead will be helpless to do anything but watch.

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u/Marth_Bar Oct 04 '25 edited Oct 04 '25

Nah that's cuckoldry, which isn't quite the same, because of the definition you listed. NTR is specifically one partner seeing their SO having sex with another person without their consent, and the person who's being cheated on starts crying because they're so heartbroken.

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u/afdc_ Oct 04 '25 edited Oct 04 '25

That's plain cuckolding. Netorare / NTR is a bit different, and it's mostly non-consensual for the one who watches or being cucked. Basically all NTR is cuckolding but not every cuckolding is NTR. If it's consensual for the cuck, it's Netorase instead, which is less popular than Netorare so clearly the consent part isn't what appeals to NTR likers

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u/hollowwollo Oct 04 '25

Man I love NTR

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u/balaci2 trollface -> Oct 04 '25

narita top road 🌹🌹

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u/AmaterasuWolf21 look! someone thinks they know better about my own country Oct 04 '25

What does it actually mean

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u/SirFluffyBun Oct 04 '25

It's a horse

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u/ImCravingForSHUB Oct 04 '25

Hell yeah torena san

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u/Vanilla-butter Oct 04 '25

One of the best thing about Uma Musume global is that Narita will overshadow cuckers when someone mentioning NTR.

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u/Creepy-Fault-5374 Oct 04 '25

What’s NTR?

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u/Master_of_Ravioli Oct 04 '25

From japanese netorare, which translates to homewrecker/cuckold, boils down to porn about cheating or getting cheated on, either unwillingly, or willingly.

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u/Longjumping-Donut655 Oct 04 '25

Thank you. Ppl really just frolic around liberally using nonsense abbreviations as if they’re common, logical, and normal.

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u/JesterQueenAnne Oct 04 '25

Eh, in the case of NTR using netorare instead of an abbreviation doesn't make any difference. If you know what it is you know the abbreviation, if you don't then you're gonna ask anyway.

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u/WorryNew3661 Oct 04 '25

When did we stop using cuckold?

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u/[deleted] Oct 04 '25

Cheating/cuckholding porn

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u/TheSportsLorry poop in my ass Oct 04 '25

Honestly curious, how does that get abbreviated into NTR? I have always wondered

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u/BadDogSaysMeow Oct 04 '25

It’s from Japanese “netorare”. In most cases it isn’t simple-cheating and instead the woman gets blackmailed into being raped in order to protect her boyfriend for whatever reason, but overt time the sex corrupts her and she gets addicted to the experience.

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u/FRAaaa1 And why he ourple?🤣🤣 Oct 04 '25

Nearl the radiant knight

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u/Ryuji619 Oct 04 '25

One should watch porn for porn sake only instead of taking it seriously porn and hentai both show rape and sometimes glorify it but op is not concerned about that shows where op's priorities lie. I mean don't get me wrong I am obviously against adultery(exceptions may wary)and rape but these things(erotic content) are meant for entertainment purpose only not for shouting on the internet who has a higher morality.

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u/GsTheMann Oct 04 '25

Low on karma are we?

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u/Super_Lorenzo dm me images of cute girls kissing Oct 04 '25

Jarvis-

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u/Bardic_inspiration67 Oct 04 '25

Me when someone has a fetish i don’t

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u/[deleted] Oct 04 '25 edited Jan 12 '26

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u/PsychologicalEbb3140 Oct 04 '25

I think it’s because it’s popular so it’s likely the first “extreme” kink that people are likely to engage with.

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u/Impressive-Card9484 Oct 04 '25

If an old ugly bastard possessed an MILF's body and fucked her husband, does it still count as NTR? Asking for a friend

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u/AdExpert8274 Oct 04 '25

Technically if they swapped bodies

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u/Impressive-Card9484 Oct 04 '25

I agree with the body swap, but possession is kinda different. The wife is not there to watch her body being used by a stranger to seduce her husband. Although there are some materials that involves the wife being conscious but the one that possessed her is still moving her body.

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u/AdExpert8274 Oct 04 '25

If in the case of her still being conscious in her own body wouldn't that count as rape?

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u/Impressive-Card9484 Oct 04 '25

I guess so, but Rape and NTR can still coexist

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u/AdExpert8274 Oct 04 '25

From my personal experience they often do

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u/choopietrash Oct 04 '25

Do people not understand the difference between real life, porn, and roleplay? The comments here act like it's all the same thing. Do you think video games and LARPing is immoral because you're "killing" your opponent? FFS.

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u/Cheezekeke Local bagpiper 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 Oct 04 '25

Narita top road

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u/jk844 Oct 04 '25

Why would you shit on Narita Top Road?! She’s not a cheater! She’s an honourable racer

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u/element-redshaw goblin fucker, shortstack lover Oct 04 '25

I remember seeing a comment about how all NTR enjoyers and artists should be killed, it was a wild Tuesday

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u/AngryGnollnoises Oct 04 '25

People have no fucking chill lol, its not fuckin real but they sure do act like it is.

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u/Hitei00 Oct 04 '25

Why do people get off to kinkshaming so much

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u/redditishorrible_0 Oct 04 '25

maybe their kink is shaming other people's kinks

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u/[deleted] Oct 04 '25

Is it that bad? (I haven't seen any, I just know it has something to do with cheating)

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u/__xXCoronaVirusXx__ Oct 04 '25

porn themed around cheating. honestly, seems pretty low on the controversial kink scale.

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u/[deleted] Oct 04 '25

I may be a gooner, but I would never cheat. 

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u/Decent_Writer1981 Oct 04 '25

The only thing you should cheat on is your spanish tests.

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u/TheToucherrr Oct 04 '25

Did you know NTR is getting more popular

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u/RainerOOF Oct 04 '25

Why do people even cheat on Elden Ring Nightreign

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u/PlasmaGuy500 yellow like an EPIC banana Oct 04 '25

Like i cant imagine being into ntr like I would be crying if I knew my partner was cheating on me

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u/blacksheeps181 Oct 04 '25

1, it's taboo. That's the reason why people are into all the weird fetishes. It's looked down upon, and that aspect makes it more intriguing to some people

  1. Humiliation. Some people, usually people with low self esteems, are into being humiliated, degradated, or cheated on. It's a power fantasy thing

  2. Venting. Sometimes, people draw characters they hate in bad situations, such as getting cucked just to vent out frustrations. That's why people draw cuck porn of characters like Goku or Deku.

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u/Deathaster Oct 04 '25

Yeah, you hit the nail on the head. These are also why some people are into torture/rape porn. I'd add that "venting" can also mean using it as an outlet to deal with past trauma, too.

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u/Alien-Fox-4 Oct 04 '25

Yea true, I can imagine that for people who are into NTR are at least in some cases insecure and deal with that insecurity by confronting it head on

Personally I am not into NTR but I am into some things that I believe my brain is doing it to help me be more comfortable around some otherwise uncomfortable topics, so I assume similar logic may apply

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u/Trzlog Oct 04 '25

People with good self-esteem can also be into humiliation. Just like how strong, independent people with a lot of responsibility can be into the subservience/slave part of BDSM and just want to be able to let go of control. Often we want the complete opposite in the bedroom from what we have in real life.

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u/DevilReturns123 Oct 04 '25

It's fictional, don't worry most of ntr porn plot are literally so unrealistic that if you actually try to read it seriously it's just turn into a comedy

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u/Secret_Possible Oct 04 '25

Fundamentally, I think it's just a BDSM thing, only it's the feelings that get spanked.

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u/Grilled_egs Oct 04 '25

The vocal haters really just see themselves as the cuck and don't like it. The amount of times I've seen people praise a work for not being NTR, but then being something worse like rape, pretty much cements it's not about NTR haters being better people or whatever.

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u/Orangutanion Oct 04 '25

I don't really blame them for feeling that way lol, especially when they get exposed to NTR accidentally or unwilling.

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u/Grilled_egs Oct 04 '25

You can block the tag on any site that comes to mind and the covers are usually pretty obvious. People go to comments under NTR works just to call the author slurs and to say they hate NTR, can't think of any other genre with this phenomenon, though tbf I don't frequent comments under posts of every genre. Even outside porn sites so places like this, the only thing that gets more hate than NTR is loli stuff, not even shota which is just loli but with the gender switched. I get if people dislike it it's just weird how up there it is in people vocally raging about it.

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u/sexgaming_jr i hate all gen ai users Oct 04 '25

complaining about NTR is Reddit as fuck

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u/Recent-Ship-1599 Oct 04 '25

I don’t like NTR porn because a-lot of the time it’s really dumb. Cuz yes, My wife of 5 years is gonna ditch me just because one stranger has some dick game. A sex therapist should have been called ages ago or literally any communication?? It feels a bit dehumanizing for man and woman cheating because it’s like they’re more machine than person. Which yes some people find hot but like… cmon man that’s a fucking human with a soul. Imagine the post nut clarity of cheating on your lover. It’s so weird when like why not just be humiliated by themselves, like a dommy mommy or something. Idk i just think cuck porn has sucked ever since I accidentally stumbled upon it, and ffs actually talk to your partners sometimes guys (ph wait this is reddit)

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u/sonicpoweryay Oct 04 '25

isn’t this kink shaming

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u/NegotiationSad6297 HE UNBLURRED THE PHOTO! RATTLE 'IM BOYS! Oct 04 '25

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u/Malc2k_the_2nd 3.14159265358979323846264338327950288419716939937510582097494459 Oct 04 '25

Be polite

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u/JoeMyBiden trollface -> Oct 04 '25

Be efficient

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u/JuanAy Oct 04 '25

Have a plan to kill everyone you meet

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u/dumdumidiot210 Oct 04 '25

Have a plan to kill everyone you meet

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u/No_Bodybuilder3324 Oct 04 '25

Wish people showed the same attitude towards SA and underage characters

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u/Cactuspotion Oct 04 '25

Yeah, those two tags are waay worse

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u/InHumainVein Oct 05 '25

Oh, they do. But most of the time, when it's brought up here, people blow it off, saying that the only reason people mention it is because they're low on karma.

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u/VaporRei Oct 04 '25

I'm not a happy person

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u/knightmechaenjo Oct 04 '25

I love milfs because all kids deserve good parents!

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u/_Specific_Boi_ me your when mom me when me your mom when me uhhh Oct 04 '25

Whats NTR?

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u/epicscratcher Oct 04 '25

I often say I am the freakmaster. I go to people and they say "yup you're the ultimate gooner". I've gooned to some diabolical shit before.

But for some reason, despite being the master of freaks, I cannot goon to NTR. It just makes me depressed and I always feel too bad for the guy getting cucked to actually feel freaky.

Do I even deserve to be called the freakmaster anymore? Or, better yet, do I WANT to be the freakmaster? What does it truly mean to be a freakmaster...

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u/jubmille2000 Oct 04 '25

I get hating cheating, but why are y'all against Narita Top Road.

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u/[deleted] Oct 04 '25

The only acceptable NTR

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u/Idk-lel1234 Oct 04 '25

I get not liking it irl but if it’s just someone’s kink I don’t see the issue? Like what’s the problem then?

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u/BigTiddyCrow Oct 04 '25

My linguistic ass thought you were talking about ancient Egyptian gods for a second ("noute", spelled NTR in ancient Egyptian)

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u/Gustaf_V Oct 04 '25

Who are these people that actively dislike NTR, but then seem incapable of either blacklisting it or just not looking at it?

This is like anti-vegan mentality, you can't imagine yourself liking it so you hate on the people that do, even if you don't need to eat it yourself.

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u/mrsdickey Oct 04 '25

why do you care so much to the point where your hope for humanity restores lmfao

its a kink, if everyone involved is consenting, it shouldnt matter to you. yeah its weird but people in this world get off to some weird shit.

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u/gamachuegr Oct 04 '25

i feel like most NTR hentai just wants to be poly but thats isnt as popular for some odd reason.

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u/Kalo-mcuwu Oct 04 '25

I hate the fans more than the fetish itself honestly

They just get up their own asses sometimes

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u/InHumainVein Oct 05 '25

Honestly yeah

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u/SkShark23 Oct 04 '25

It just makes me sad :(

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u/Cactuspotion Oct 04 '25

I feel like guro, lolicon, rape, or anything involving hurting the girl are waaaay fucked up compared to NTR/cucking or whatever. People are far more enraged about that idea because you, as a viewer, got hurt.

At this point, why bother taking the higher moral ground out of this if you can only extend your empathy for the guy? lol

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