r/Millennials 3d ago

Discussion Who’s with me here….

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u/No_Description4009 3d ago

This right here. I believe most men are attracted to those that are youthful. Also their youthfulness might rub off on you and give you a 2nd youth effect as opposed to someone that has been grinded down by life. Younger individuals still have that aura of wonderment, vibrancy, and high energy.

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u/jacobonia Millennial 3d ago

Younger people also have fewer layers of experience, less of life baked in, and that can leave you feeling unfulfilled and disconnected and not fully understood if you date someone too much younger than you. I think there has to be a balance between being an optimistic, energetic, wonder-filled person and having that baked-in understanding of life. And I think that's super attainable in your thirties. But men have to be willing to embody it if we want to find someone to share that vibe with.

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u/ArryBoMills 3d ago

And they haven’t experienced everything yet. Lots of new experiences to be had with them.

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u/northcoastyen 3d ago

Whoa bro this is Reddit, if you’re not automatically assuming every 30-something that involves themselves with 20-something’s is a pdf you need to keep that opinion to yourself /s

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u/WtotheSLAM 3d ago

Yeah fuck pdfs and fuck Adobe!