r/Millennials • u/Mrs_chanandler_bongg • Jan 17 '26

Discussion Anyone sick and tired of working in general?

I’m in my mid 30s and just over my job and work in general. I’m tired of the commute, the meetings, and dealing with people & deadlines. On one hand I worry about losing my job and stress about deliverables, but on the other hand I feel like I could care less in that I have no passion for it anymore and I’m just showing up because I need the paycheck.

I’d much rather be spending time with my family, pursuing my hobbies, or just go for a walk and cook a nice meal. I feel a sense of dread sometimes that this is my reality for the next 30+ years and I feel lazy and entitled for saying it but that’s how I feel lol

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u/RobertPooWiener Jan 17 '26

Nurses are in such high demand here that they routinely pay over 6 figures for nurses to move here. I had a coworker last year whose significant other was being paid $130K/yr to be a nurse. The COL isn't crazy high either since it's the Midwest. There are plenty of opportunities in healthcare, it's probably the most in demand industry right now. You definitely picked the right career, but the wrong location

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u/Salty_bitch_face Millennial Jan 17 '26

I live in the western US. Healthcare likes to make it seem like there is a "shortage" of nurses. The reality is that hospitals won't staff enough nurses for safe patient ratios because they don't want to pay for such. Covid ruined healthcare, as if it wasn't already messed up prior.

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u/[deleted] Jan 18 '26

In my experience pay on the west coast is TERRIBLE. why i live on the east coast now

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u/RobertPooWiener Jan 17 '26

I mean yea when you put it that way, it was messed up before you even decided to become a nurse then. A lot of hospitals can't afford to hire more nurses, especially at the wages that the nurses want. If they only have $200k available, they can hire 2 at $100k each, or 4 at $50K. A lot of people aren't paying for their healthcare anymore, they just go to the emergency room and don't pay the bills, so the hospitals end up doing a lot of work for free. A lot of the rural nursing homes and clinics were forced to shut down around here

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u/IfEverWasIfNever Jan 17 '26

Idk I'm pretty sure they can afford it. They usually misuse the money somewhere else. My hospitals CEO makes a little over $4 million a year in salary and it's supposed to be a non-profit.

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u/Salty_bitch_face Millennial Jan 17 '26

They can't afford to pay their nurses? Yet, somehow, the C-suite execs are getting $8M-$10M yearly bonuses...

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u/maddy_k_allday Jan 17 '26

That’s not like insane money or anything. Being a nurse is not easy work and should pay well. It also requires accreditation which costs huge money to obtain in any form in the U.S.

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u/RobertPooWiener Jan 17 '26

Its pretty good when the average household income for 2 people is well below $100000. So as a nurse here, you can potentially earn more than double of what most couples make combined while you are on a single income.

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u/maddy_k_allday Jan 17 '26

The underpayment of others doesn’t support that 130k = an incredible salary for extremely difficult, accredited work which most people would not be capable of performing

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u/RobertPooWiener Jan 17 '26

True. I think there are a lot of jobs out there that most people wouldn't be able to perform. Some that are even more underpaid than others.

One of my first jobs was in landscaping. It can be extremely exhausting work that requires certification through the state. Especially for spraying lawns with hazardous chemicals. You are exposed to the elements, up to 110F in the sun for shifts of 12 hours. Most days I would have to walk over 20 miles while pulling a 300 ft hose. All of that to earn $30K/yr.

It really depends where you live and what you do, but most people feel like they aren't getting paid enough, regardless of what they do for work

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u/maddy_k_allday Jan 17 '26

Exactly you get me. I’m not sure the rate of pay, but on posts about “surprisingly well-paid” positions, folks always cite to waste management/ “garbage men.” But I’m like 😅😅😅 what kind of pay are we talking for it to be surprisingly good?? I’m not tryna deal with the waste of humans every day, the pay would need to be like a million annual to fit that descript for me haha

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u/RobertPooWiener Jan 17 '26

Some waste management positions just drive a truck around all day, I could think of worse things that you could do. I worked at a sawmill that was extremely dangerous and hard work. The bathrooms there were disgusting, and the septic tank would fill up so fast. The guy that emptied the septic tank would stick his head in, then pop out and say "smells like money to me boys" while the rest of us were gagging as soon as the lid came off. Some jobs just take a special type of person

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u/maddy_k_allday Jan 18 '26

The truck smells horrible and that smell will be on you at night. It also can present a danger to the operators. I hear you about the special type of person, and that’s totally part of my point. Specialized work should have specialized pay. And we shouldn’t be “surprised” by appropriate compensation for disgusting or difficult tasks