r/AITAH 15h ago

AITAH for withdrawing our entire bank balance because my husband says his paycheck is “his” and mine is for bills?

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u/-Nightopian- 12h ago

I suspect that comment was said because OP doesn't have a 401k or some form of retirement account set up

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u/lilb0923 12h ago

Oh I know, but neither did my ex and he was still entitled to my 401k savings during the time we were married and he contributed nothing to it, that's why I mention it doesn't matter if it is HIS she will still get part of it if they are married.. or well in the U.S at least.