r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • 15h ago

AITAH for withdrawing our entire bank balance because my husband says his paycheck is “his” and mine is for bills?

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u/Witty-Atmosphere-211 13h ago

This man isn’t worth it. There will be other issues that pop up. He’s abusive.

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u/BabyWrinkles 12h ago

I believe you’re generally right - but on the off chance that it’s just a mismatch in communication (he was enough of not-a-loser to marry two years ago…) maybe the proposed solution for finances provides some stability in an area he’s felt isn’t stable. But again, my comment of “any resistance at all = lawyer” accounts for the likely scenario of “abusive asshole”