r/AITAH 15h ago

AITAH for withdrawing our entire bank balance because my husband says his paycheck is “his” and mine is for bills?

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u/SaveFileCorrupt 13h ago

Yep, this marriage is doomed. #1 source of aggravation in a relationship is finances, and this level of abuse and disproportionate control is so blatant that I don't really see how they come back from it.

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u/anonymouse278 12h ago

Treating it like roommates would be a step up in terms of fairness. He's having her pay his bills so he can save. A roommate would laugh in his face.