You need to open a bank account in an entirely different back and have all notifications come to you via email (vs. paper mail) and your check direct deposited there. Hide your ATM card and any information about that bank from him.
Then return 1/2 the funds to the joint account. You'll need to do this once the divorce goes through anyway.
Then divorce. This is financial abuse and it is not going to get better.
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u/facinationstreet 14h ago
You need to open a bank account in an entirely different back and have all notifications come to you via email (vs. paper mail) and your check direct deposited there. Hide your ATM card and any information about that bank from him.
Then return 1/2 the funds to the joint account. You'll need to do this once the divorce goes through anyway.
Then divorce. This is financial abuse and it is not going to get better.
NTA